Graham **SPOILERS**

[yeisha]

Originally Posted by bachlorfan

Not me. I think she just has the hots for him, I wouldn't say the "L: word at all. Someone has to get the "Chemistry" edit , ala Bevin.

i respectfully disagree. it'll be a chemistry/bevin edit if they couldn't keep their hands off each other. and while there is an obvious physical spark, i think what graham and deanna have is much more complicated than that. just my opinion.

[Google]

 

[simplechef]

I can see why Deanna is attracted to Graham. It's very obvious he makes her motor run. However, I don't think Graham realized he'd be so uncomfortable in this situation. Deanna is very strong willed person, and I believe Graham is a bit shy. I think she scares the whoopah out of him, and he runs for the hills. Deanna will get over it... I don't think they had a strong emotional connection, just a strong physical one. It's only Jason we've heard asking about her, how she is doing, about her family, her mom, that is very appealing. If Deanna doesn't fall for Jason, she's made of stone.

PLUS... Jason has the building story line.

[nessie]

Originally Posted by Phyllie

I think a lot of gay guys are really HOT, and usually have my gaydar turned to high, but I don't get a single ping from Graham.

Sometimes you turn down a kiss to reel the fish in a little closer. And sometimes you are so tied up inside you don't know if you are coming or going.

I think Graham is wearing a chastity ring. It's that silver ring he wears on his middle finger. I know alot of Christian singles are wearing them. Have any of you noticed the ring?

[Kresge]

Originally Posted by Phyllie

I read this on Brian's website, and it made me think that there is a WHOLE lot more to Graham than the show is letting us see...(It's a caption under a picture of Brian's wrist wearing two bands, one with 4sicks.com on it.)

I wear these bands to remind me that I can choose to take pride in forging ahead during the tough moments. Graham gave me the blue one during the show and it reminds me of this day:

Saturday afternoon I wrote a 5 round workout using Graham's playing cards to randomly order the number of reps per set with 5 cards per round. During the first round Jeremy stopped, during the 3rd Shawn had enough but in the 5th Grahamn and I were still going, almost unable to use our arms. He looked up, barely able to utter a word and said: "It is in these moments where we seperate ourselves from the old and forge a new identity. We can choose to become better, stronger, healthier. We can push through the tough time and come out a different person on the other side. Right now we have a choice to either stay the same or to grow both physically and emotionally." Needless to say our 5th round was better than the first...

I haven't the foggiest notion of what that all means.....

[Kresge]

Probably won't be a popular opinion, but all I see with Graham and Dee is a physical attraction on De's behalf. Each season there is someone the Bachelor is highly attracted to, and each season we scream at our screens "think with your big head, instead of your little soldier"!

Graham might be a hotmess, but I'm just not seeing any strong emotional connection here. And, considering Graham has issues he needs to work through, I sincerely hope De does not show up in NYC......

[sclilred1]

I can completely understand why Graham was hesitant in kissing DeAnna at the race track. He had just interupted her and Jeremy and they were sitting rather closely together. I would imagine that Graham simply assumed that they had been kissing before he walked in, hence the seconds comment. IMO Graham is the only one that DeAnna is completely interested in. Jason is a nice guy and all but doesn't make her feel those butterflies. Jeremy is almost to good to be true, saying the right things at just the right time. Jesse is a fun guy and not what I expected him to be. Jesse has a serious side as well but I am not sure that he and DeAnna are really that great of a match. Graham, I think, is really the only one left that DeAnna has already fallen for completely. She just now needs to back off some and stop being so demanding of him, after all she claims that she knows exactly what he and the other guys are going through.

[hotlanta babe]

Wow ... Graham is getting beat up for his lack of long-term relationships.

Would it not also be an advantage to know early when a relationship is not going to work and stop dating, rather than drag it on just for the sake of dating? Could it be that he hasn't found Miss Right yet and didn't want to settle for "Miss Right Now"? Did he want to get involved while he was in Europe playing pro basketball and traveling so much? Is he career-oriented with his NYC bar management and his charity to have the time to date? Is he just not in the right place emotionally after a death in his family?

There are SO MANY reasons why some people do not have long relationships besides being scared of commitment.

[shoepie]

Deanna, he is just not that into you. This is what I see happening.

[goldie2]

Originally Posted by Gilmoregirl

I think it's mutual. It's just not playing out the same way for each of them. Too bad they both weren't able to walk off the show and figure it out. Deanna is committed to this ridiculous process and wants Graham to play the same game. He on the other hand appears to be surprised by his own feelings, the process, and the intense possessiveness/jealously that ensues. I think he is trying to protect himself while she wants him to throw caution to the wind. In 6 weeks time, I can't imagine that their feelings resolve so that Deanna can really fall in love with one of the other guys.

In fact, I thought (don't quote me here) she noted during a PI about Fred that he was genuine and open in the way she wanted the one she was in love with (Graham) to be.

Some intense heat between these two....I see her in New York in a couple of months!

I agree that I think it is mutual...I think they express themselves differently but it is clearly mutual..he seems to be worried as well about not being the only guy there and putting himself out there to get hurt..maybe that has happened to him before somewhat,just got out of a recent relationship with someone who was the "one"he said and then to jump back into this intense thing they seem to be experiencing..too bad the timing seems to be hurting both of them..JMO

While I love Jason as a person and some of the others,The intensity with these two is very real and so interesting to watch.Seems like even when he is not in the scene he is somehow still there...so much more so than anything else on the show to this point....

[cupcakes]

I wonder if this was his ex...I found these posted on another site...and they were taken this past New Year's....He looks really happy around her...





Another pic of them...