Graham **SPOILERS**

[goldie2]

Originally Posted by procheervet

I have said this before, I don't think it is a lack of emotion or of wanting to kiss Deanna, I think it is more of the awkwardness of the situation with cameras all around them and the fact that he is obviously painfully shy. Makes it all seem more real if you look at it in that perspective. That he has genuine feelings and is not "performing".

I agree,I don't think they seem awkward at all..almost like they are having to restrain themselves from being more passionate because of the cameras..

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[angelic_one2002]

Originally Posted by 2observe

Did I hear DeAnna correctly? Did she tell Graham she could not marrying someone that she didn't know??? So does that mean that she knows the other guy well enough to marry???? That was a very interest comment she made. Also, Graham mentioned that DeAnna always thinks that she's right. Hmmmm....., another interesting comment.

I think some of these men could really pick up on things about Deanna that we aren't privy to. Maybe there was more to his comment than we know about.

[Capegal]

Originally Posted by goldie2

I agree,I don't think they seem awkward at all..almost like they are having to restrain themselves from being more passionate because of the cameras..

Passion is one thing that I don't see between these two - especially at this point - a couple of weeks in - definitely not. I actually see him to be a bit intimidated by D which also will make things pretty awkward as well.

[Cailg]

Originally Posted by procheervet

I agree that there has to be much more than just the physical attraction, the point I am trying to make it that the physical component is very important as well. When I see De and Graham interact I too see the awkwardness, but I read it more as there is something there and they are like schoolkids together, nervous and jittery, and that kind of thing is what "it" is all about. Granted, the comfortable soul searching relationship is also important, but I think in those really special relationships, the comfort comes later, the "it" comes first.

I love Graham, and I understand your points. While there are other shows to come, so far I see the chemistry with Graham, but a hesitation that is coming from him. I was surprised to see that when they kissed, DeAnna drew him back for another after he pulled away. Again revealing that she really likes him and wants more.

Of course we are seeing the edited version of the show, but Graham seemed much more comfortable and perhaps happy earlier on. It looks like De wants him to take more initiative with his emotions and with her, but eventually will just give up.

Again, I love Graham, so I don't mean this to be critical at all.

[Capegal]

Originally Posted by angelic_one2002

I think some of these men could really pick up on things about Deanna that we aren't privy to. Maybe there was more to his comment than we know about.

Didn't she say that same comment - or something similar -at the meet and greet too?!? LOL - yup she can be intimidating as all get out for sure.

[pminn1608]

Originally Posted by Capegal

From what I see of these 2 - they certainly struggle too much with each other - their communication is a struggle - and D is pretty aware of that by her comments about him last night. That can really undo alot of relationships - as she has said she needs someone who she can talk to - can communicate with - etc..... and that is what she is struggleing with with Graham.

It is difficult to communicate with someone who has openly stated "Im always right", that is often an immediate warning of a bully attitude and could be a reason for not wanting to pursue a relationship!

[Capegal]

I think the 'always right' comment is somewhat in jest tho - it does show her somewhat tough piece of her personality

[Mike'sgirl]

Originally Posted by Capegal

I think the 'always right' comment is somewhat in jest tho - it does show her somewhat tough piece of her personality

That was my interpretation as well. Though it is getting a lot of coverage.

[Capegal]

It is kinda of that little piece of cockiness that she has at times.

[goldie2]

Originally Posted by Capegal

Passion is one thing that I don't see between these two - especially at this point - a couple of weeks in - definitely not. I actually see him to be a bit intimidated by D which also will make things pretty awkward as well.

I think it is very restrained due to the circumstances and the cameras and time allowed together with other guys around...

Most seem to think that is all they have is some kind of physical connection..

but I think if that were the case I think he would not care at all about allowing her to see this "process" through with all the others..

He is emotionally invested here..not just physically..and next week we will see more of his concerns about HER being with the others..