Graham **SPOILERS**

[chaslom4]

Originally Posted by Bloomers

I wasn't getting on you! Honest!!! It's just that things around here ( and on every board) have a way of taking off and taking on a new life of their own. The evidence does appear that something out of the ordinary has probably happened with Graham. (The ordinary meaning that like any other contestant he simply makes it to F4 and then gets cut because it just isn't there, etc.)
We do know certain things, and we can reasonably speculate or surmise on some others. But I think we are going in the wrong direction if we try to pass by the evidence that we do have and draw a really huge ( and very possibly false) conclusion based on no evidence.

BTW, I am as big a sucker for reliable inside info as anybody else on this board. However, I want it to be correct when we do get it!

That's ok. I didn't take it that way. Sometimes I feel kinda dumb when I can't figure out what seems to be clear with everyone else so I have to ask. I understand now, and thank you for taking the time to explain it better.

[Google]

 

[hayleysmommy]

I hope I am not repeating what others have posted, but I can't find any kind of obit that is linked to Graham. His parents appear to be fine as is his sister Melinda. His parents are in their early 60s and both quite successful in their own rights. I can't find much on the grandparents.. I think this rumor has been blown out of proportion. Maybe Graham bowed out gracefully and left a note. ( hope it's not a post-it noe like Berger left Carrie on Sex and the City.. ) after the rc. Then again the note may not even be about Graham... maybe her family sent her a note of encouragement. and it made her cry. Who knows..

[Tiggerlgh]

Originally Posted by hayleysmommy

I hope I am not repeating what others have posted, but I can't find any kind of obit that is linked to Graham. His parents appear to be fine as is his sister Melinda. His parents are in their early 60s and both quite successful in their own rights. I can't find much on the grandparents.. I think this rumor has been blown out of proportion. Maybe Graham bowed out gracefully and left a note. ( hope it's not a post-it noe like Berger left Carrie on Sex and the City.. ) after the rc. Then again the note may not even be about Graham... maybe her family sent her a note of encouragement. and it made her cry. Who knows..

I agree I don't think there was a family emergency. I think he either just naturally left at F4 or he decided he didn't want to go any further and wrote DeAnna a note and left on his own will.

[Bloomers]

Originally Posted by hayleysmommy

I hope I am not repeating what others have posted, but I can't find any kind of obit that is linked to Graham. His parents appear to be fine as is his sister Melinda. His parents are in their early 60s and both quite successful in their own rights. I can't find much on the grandparents.. I think this rumor has been blown out of proportion. Maybe Graham bowed out gracefully and left a note. ( hope it's not a post-it noe like Berger left Carrie on Sex and the City.. ) after the rc. Then again the note may not even be about Graham... maybe her family sent her a note of encouragement. and it made her cry. Who knows..

On another board it was rather routinely stated that his (elderly) grandfather had died ( don't quote me, but maybe in February?). The idea was that Graham was very close to him.
This next part is speculation and a wandering thought through the air from somebody that I pulled down because it sounds like it has some possibilities. Somebody in the family needed him badly in connection to the passing of the loved one. Add everything together, and maybe Graham emotionally felt like he had to or needed to be with family during a possible crisis???
This sure isn't the gospel truth according to John the Revelator , but maybe it is part of the puzzle.

[jelle]

And maybe he had had enough and just wanted to go home

[Bloomers]

Originally Posted by jelle

And maybe he had had enough and just wanted to go home

We think "he had enough", but we aren't sure in exactly what context because before his Myspace or Facebook (whichever he has) was shut down, somebody copied off some of the very cryptic things he had said about DeAnna. The indication at that particular point was that he still cared.

[jelle]

"had enough" was referring to the show and the format - not necessarily to Deanna

[cupcakes]

Any ideas where and when this takes place? This PI appeared during her 1 on 1 date with Graham...

[i<3realitytv]

Any ideas where and when this takes place? This PI appeared during her 1 on 1 date with Graham...

http://i41.servimg.com/u/f41/11/41/41/95/deann110.jpg

I'm not sure when and where this particular PI takes place but she also did a PI in this same clothes and place that appeared during Eric's 1 on 1 time on the Dodgers game date.

[cupcakes]

Originally Posted by i<3realitytv

I'm not sure when and where this particular PI takes place but she also did a PI in this same clothes and place that appeared during Eric's 1 on 1 time on the Dodgers game date.

Thanks RT.