Graham **SPOILERS**

[goldie2]

Originally Posted by Kimmie0712

I think as the show progresses we will see more of an emotional side to De as far as the rc's. She's already shown how difficult it is for her at the last rc. Over the next few weeks we will see just how emotionally involved she gets with all these men.

I sure wouldn't want to be in her shoes....well, maybe a few of those kisses wouldn't be too bad.

It could be from another rose ceremony and another guy for sure..it is hard to say yet..
But given the storyline they are promoting with Graham and the editing of how she is so uncertain about him.. it could be him expressing his feelings for her after he leaves or something..

Maybe not,though..it could be another guy that wrote her a note when he left and she went outside to talk to him..

It makes some sense that it COULD be Graham because the F4 ceremony is the only one they start to walk the guys out at and it is outside...JUST SPECULATING.,though.

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[Kimmie0712]

Originally Posted by goldie2

What do you mean? Bachs that have left?

I'm thinking maybe they meant bach/ettes from previous seasons said that. Just my guess though...

[Arielflies]

Originally Posted by goldie2

What do you mean? Bachs that have left?

I mean the previous stars of The Bachelor...not the bachelors on the Bachelorette series.

[candimichele]

Originally Posted by Arielflies

I don't know if she has made that statement yet, but other bachelors have made that statement.

She did state in an interview that the F4 RC was the hardest for her..

[goldie2]

Originally Posted by candimichele

She did state in an interview that the F4 RC was the hardest for her..

Do you know where that article is..I have not seen it,just quoted that it was..

[2observe]

Imo, one thing is very clear to me and that is that DeAnna and Graham's 1 on 1 date was a success to both of them. After I read so much about the lack of eye contact from Graham, I then re-watched their 1 on 1 date and was really surprised to see so much eye contact from Graham. He's expression at one point didn't match what DeAnna was talking about, which leads me to believe that it was highly edited.

I find it rather confusing that we see and hear DeAnna saying that she's extremely happy with their date and that she feels that Graham is falling for her. Then we see and hear Graham he's willing to see where it goes and to have her, he would be a lucky fellow. So if Graham was so closed off why was DeAnna so confident about Graham falling for her??? And, why would she call their date FANTASTIC. I truly think that we are being misled about DeAnna and Graham's connection and that when he leaves it will have a major impact on both of them.

[goldie2]

Originally Posted by 2observe

Imo, one thing is very clear to me and that is that DeAnna and Graham's 1 on 1 date was a success to both of them. After I read so much about the lack of eye contact from Graham, I then re-watched their 1 on 1 date and was really surprised to see so much eye contact from Graham. He's expression at e point didn't match what DeAnna was talking about, which leads me to believe that it was highly edited.

I find it rather confusing that we see and hear DeAnna saying that she's extremely happy with their date and that she feels that Graham is falling for her. Then we see and hear Graham he's willing to see where it goes and to have her, he would be a lucky fellow. So if Graham was so closed off why was DeAnna so confident about Graham falling for her??? And, why would she call their date FANTASTIC. I truly think that we are being misled about DeAnna and Graham's connection and that when he leaves it will have a major impact on both of them.

I saw their date like you as well...Even at the end he seemed really nervous that she was going to cut him and he was like "NO,NO..really..like as he was nervous that she was starting the rose thing and that he might not get it'..

You could imagine not being confident in that situation of possibly being rejected in that he would not really stare at her,if and when she might reject him..JMO
He did say he was worried he may not get the rose...

[coltinfan]

i think the same way i rewatch the show the first time i saw it, was
kinda what they trying to make see that he was not interested enough
to give her any eye contact, but i have really watch it on abc.com
thank you abc. i have new thought, when they were in the car both
of them were laughing and there hands were on each other. then
when they were flying the kite (it look like they were having allott
of fun not flying the dang thing. maybe it was more deanna not
coming to close because this was her first date since brad(she had
the other with the guys but not 1 on 1)she has a whole year thinking
about what brad did to her. so she was the one that was holding
back a little remember graham ask please sit by me, as soon as she
did that, that got along better she relax with him. his kissing her
on the beach was hot. when they drove home they could see
twilly waiting for her so that was kissing on the cheek we dont no.
of course this is mho.

[DaisyofHazard]

Originally Posted by Lynn7

We know he leaves because of screencaps as well as other information that has been privately provided.

I'm only speculating about the card. Her expression is a sad one and I can't think of any other situation that would invoke these kinds of emotions from DeAnna. Unless Graham had to suddenly leave and wrote her afterward to explain it all. Heck, it could be a card from her late mother that her dad was supposed to give her at an important time in her life. Whatever it is, those are not happy tears.

Thanks for explaining. I really meant how do we know he leaves because of outside circumstances. It sounds like you have a much more knowledgeable source then my friend.

My friend said he saw him in February and March. Graham was in N.C. for family related stuff. It seems like maybe it was a funeral. Though, I feel weird speculating like this about a friend of a friend. I'll just ask him.

Also, I'm new - so bear with me if this is a silly question - but isn't it possible that the guys could be seen in their home town during a HTD? The B/ette has to go to 4 home towns. Wouldn't that give the guys some days where they were not filming. Is it possible that they might wait in their home town until the next RC. That would be an awesome way to confuse people about when they get home. It would look like they were back. And then they go away again for a few days to finish.

I'm not saying I think it's Graham. The pictures do seem to point to Jason and Jesse. It seems like there would be so many better ways to fool people then the editors are using. JMO

[Capegal]

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I wish we knew where this takes place - she appears to be all dolled up, so maybe it's pre-RC?? And F4 RC would take place at the mans....

Maybe she is reading the note and being asked to let him go at the RC - not to get a rose - so he can leave - it would be a way out for him