Graham **SPOILERS** - Page 47

goldie2 · 05-27-2008, 02:57 PM

"I am not afraid of opening up my heart to someone like Graham..what I am afraid of is opening up to someone like Graham and him not feeling the same way as I am..." a pi from Dee..

maybe she was afraid to take that risk completely without a sure sign from him..

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pakacat · 05-27-2008, 03:00 PM

I mentioned this in the show thread, but you do get plenty of guys who will play at being aloof even when they are very interested, as they know the "desperate" vibe can be a real turn-off to many women and that they like the thrill of the chase and the mystery also. This could be the case with Graham; however, there may be something else going on here (I could start questioning his motives for going on if this turns out to be the case), so I'll withhold judgement for now.

BluIsDixie · 05-27-2008, 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by goldie2

"I am not afraid of opening up my heart to someone like Graham..what I am afraid of is opening up to someone like Graham and him not feeling the same way as I am..." a pi from Dee..

maybe she was afraid to take that risk completely without a sure sign from him..

So what is Dee meaning here? Graham's total "hotness" factor(JMHO) any thoughts????

goldie2 · 05-27-2008, 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by BluIsDixie

So what is Dee meaning here? Graham's total "hotness" factor(JMHO) any thoughts????

She said she saw something the first night with him,something about him,maybe it was that he was her type in many ways..you know, that feeling you have about someone.. and was afraid to go for it with him completely without a sure sign from him that he would not hurt her like she had been hurt with Brad ..

not just the hotness factor..

BluIsDixie · 05-27-2008, 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by goldie2

She said she saw something the first night with him,something about him,maybe it was that he was her type in many ways..you know, that feeling you have about someone.. and was afraid to go for it with him completely without a sure sign from him that he would not hurt her like she had been hurt with Brad ..

not just the hotness factor..

Thanks Goldie... I think I am suffering from CRS lately. Now that you mentioned it, I remembered it.

procheervet · 05-27-2008, 04:28 PM

A poster on the alphabet board who said they knew Graham personally indicated that he was indeed very into De, that he had to leave the show for reasons that were personal but were not indicative of a lack of feeling for De, and that he was really sad about having to leave the show. That poster made it sound like he was still carrying a torch for De.

anxieuse · 05-27-2008, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by procheervet

A poster on the alphabet board who said they knew Graham personally indicated that he was indeed very into De, that he had to leave the show for reasons that were personal but were not indicative of a lack of feeling for De, and that he was really sad about having to leave the show. That poster made it sound like he was still carrying a torch for De.

Let's not forget that we only saw 10-15 minutes from a whole day spent together. However, from those 10 minutes you can tell that the whole day did not pan out the way DeAnna expected it probably. If they got into those relationship conversations all day long, that would be a turn off for anybody. They did not seem relaxed or having a good time at all. I don't think the chemistry is there. Though, he does seem to be a sweet person.

As it was mentioned before the VO is setting us up for Graham's exit already.

I think, DeAnna's problem coming into this, is that she thaught everybody was already in love with her and she would have to pick from that pool.

I don't think so...

angelic_one2002 · 05-27-2008, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by anxieuse

Let's not forget that we only saw 10-15 minutes from a whole day spent together. However, from those 10 minutes you can tell that the whole day did not pan out the way DeAnna expected it probably. If they got into those relationship conversations all day long, that would be a turn off for anybody. They did not seem relaxed or having a good time at all. I don't think the chemistry is there. Though, he does seem to be a sweet person.

As it was mentioned before the VO is setting us up for Graham's exit already.

I think, DeAnna's problem coming into this, is that she thaught everybody was already in love with her and she would have to pick from that pool.

I don't think so...

Very good post, anxieuse. I agree with you.

I don't think the chemistry is there between Deanna and Graham at all. Their date was very awkward, IMO.
Deanna has a bunch of men this season with all kinds of personalities. It will be interesting to see the men who are attracted and who aren't attracted.

pminn1608 · 05-27-2008, 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by anxieuse

Let's not forget that we only saw 10-15 minutes from a whole day spent together. However, from those 10 minutes you can tell that the whole day did not pan out the way DeAnna expected it probably. If they got into those relationship conversations all day long, that would be a turn off for anybody. They did not seem relaxed or having a good time at all. I don't think the chemistry is there. Though, he does seem to be a sweet person.

As it was mentioned before the VO is setting us up for Graham's exit already.

I think, DeAnna's problem coming into this, is that she thaught everybody was already in love with her and she would have to pick from that pool.

I don't think so...

I think your last paragraph could very well be the truest statement yet with regard to this season. DeAnna's defeat in Bach 10 is not over in her mind or she would not be bringing it up constantly and threatening all the men on her season show with how they must fall in love first date or leave. Graham appears to have taken a step back and is willing to see what if anything there is to the relationship and that is the smart thing to do.

probably · 05-27-2008, 06:57 PM

Dang, it was one date in which you probably only saw five minutes of filiming. Im pretty sure you saw what they wanted you to see. if not, whats the point in a story line. Im not totally sure you can form any type of real judgement based on chemistry or whatever it may be. Personally, given the situation, I thought it was handled very well, and knowing graham the way i do, I didnt see anything that i wouldnt expect. If there wasnt chemistry there, A. he wouldnt have gotten asked on the date, B. he wouldnt have gotten the rose. C. she wouldnt have wanted to see him again D. he wouldnt have gotten the first kiss. Just my opinion.

05-27-2008, 02:57 PM	#461
goldie2 To love and be loved is.. Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 1,257	Re: Graham SPOILERS "I am not afraid of opening up my heart to someone like Graham..what I am afraid of is opening up to someone like Graham and him not feeling the same way as I am..." a pi from Dee.. maybe she was afraid to take that risk completely without a sure sign from him..

05-27-2008, 03:00 PM	#462
pakacat FORT Fogey Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Auburn, AL Age: 28 Posts: 954	Re: Graham SPOILERS I mentioned this in the show thread, but you do get plenty of guys who will play at being aloof even when they are very interested, as they know the "desperate" vibe can be a real turn-off to many women and that they like the thrill of the chase and the mystery also. This could be the case with Graham; however, there may be something else going on here (I could start questioning his motives for going on if this turns out to be the case), so I'll withhold judgement for now.

05-27-2008, 04:28 PM	#466
procheervet FORT Fogey Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: A Beach in Florida Posts: 883	Re: Graham SPOILERS A poster on the alphabet board who said they knew Graham personally indicated that he was indeed very into De, that he had to leave the show for reasons that were personal but were not indicative of a lack of feeling for De, and that he was really sad about having to leave the show. That poster made it sound like he was still carrying a torch for De.

05-27-2008, 06:57 PM	#470
probably FORT Newbie Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 22	Re: Graham SPOILERS Dang, it was one date in which you probably only saw five minutes of filiming. Im pretty sure you saw what they wanted you to see. if not, whats the point in a story line. Im not totally sure you can form any type of real judgement based on chemistry or whatever it may be. Personally, given the situation, I thought it was handled very well, and knowing graham the way i do, I didnt see anything that i wouldnt expect. If there wasnt chemistry there, A. he wouldnt have gotten asked on the date, B. he wouldnt have gotten the rose. C. she wouldnt have wanted to see him again D. he wouldnt have gotten the first kiss. Just my opinion.