Graham **SPOILERS**

[Kresge]

Forgot to mention.....

Did it look like Graham was crying in the back tonight when De was upset at the RC???

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[chucksmiles]

I think Graham was alittle put off by the intense questioning and conversation he had with Dee. She is coming from experience with this process, he is not. He did say last night that the date was ok, nothing special but that she was a good kisser. Right now I think he just isn't at the same level of involvement with her as she is with him....and that is the whole idea, get to know each other, see who will fit, and if they don't, goodbye. That's not bad or good just real life!

[angelic_one2002]

I get the impression too, that Graham isn't real sure of his feelings for Deanna. Not getting the vibes that he is really into her.

[goldie2]

Originally Posted by angelic_one2002

I get the impression too, that Graham isn't real sure of his feelings for Deanna. Not getting the vibes that he is really into her.

It a might be hard to say since it was their first date and all and barely know one another..seemed to have lots of fun and seemed to have a connection to me though..
some deep conversations for a First date I would say,she is really cutting to the chase..JMO

[SweetElvira]

To me, there's always been something "off" about Graham, and I certainly don't mind that he leaves before the FRC.

This is speed-dating, and he doesn't strike me as a speed dater. Quite the opposite, and I'm inclined to believe that one reason he didn't speak of an extensive relationship history is because he is the kind to back off early. I won't speculate as to why that is. And yeah, Dee is a cut-to-the-chase type, which some men don't like. But those men should not have tried out for this show.

If there was a compounding factor, like some event from his recent past that was still bothering him, maybe the show made him realize he had to take more time to deal with it. We've seen people move and make career changes as a result of being on this show. Maybe the break from regular life leads to a certain amount of introspection. Or maybe they react to a feeling of "YUCK!!!" about going back to their previous lives and decide they must make a change.

Whatever happened between them or in their own minds when thinking about a possible relationship, I don't think Dee and Graham were right for each other, and I think she had better choices from within the group.

[BluIsDixie]

Originally Posted by goldie2

It a might be hard to say since it was their first date and all and barely know one another..seemed to have lots of fun and seemed to have a connection to me though..
some deep conversations for a First date I would say,she is really cutting to the chase..JMO

I agree with ya Goldie. She is definitely digging deep with questions. First dates are always ackward(sp). Graham knew that a rose was on the line and that has to weigh in there as well. So he did the best thing, "test" the waters and feel her out, try to tell if Dee was in to him and then proceed slowly.

Lovin' Graham's accent

[bizbachfan]

Graham seemed uncomfortable and there were just awkward moments in their conversations that D did not have with many other guys this episode, (Paul, Jason, Jesse)
She and Ron seemed to have some awkward time, but it was pretty glaring with G since she got so much time with him

[K9Mom]

Originally Posted by anxieuse

I did not see that tonight. Something looks really odd to me. I am sure that Deanna was involved in the casting process, so when she said "I don't want to choose soomeone who would turn around and say thank you for the ride" that seemed very odd to me. Was there something about Graham that made her think that from the start that we did not get to see? And did you see Graham's face when she said that? I think something is not right.

I tend to agree with your thoughts here. Perhaps De has found out about Grahams modeling and perhaps he has aspirations to further that career and this is what is making her pensive about his intentions?

[angelic_one2002]

Well, there were awkward moments between Graham and Deanna's conversation for sure. Maybe he isn't that into her..who knows. I WILL say...he is a pro basketball player, and I feel he could get anyone he wants with his good looks, successful career and all.....so Im not totally convinced he's really all that crazy about Deanna.

[K9Mom]

IMO, to sum up the Graham/DeDe date...it was awkward. Totally, 100% awkward from the beginning when she grabs his hand, to the end when he grabs her parka and kisses her on the cheek. I'm not feeling it between these two, though I wholeheartily agree that De was initially strongly physically attracted to Graham. I think she is beginning to change her mind already as she peeks beneath the glossy, model like exterior of Graham.