Graham **SPOILERS**

[GrahamGal]

Originally Posted by Gilmoregirl

Team Graham rooting for him. Mom throws him under the bus!

I thought the same thing about Mom, but I really can't wait to hear more of that discussion. Their is much more to that conversation and they just used that at the promo for next week.

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[Broadway]

Originally Posted by GrahamGal

Showing him at his business wouldn't have fit their "mold" of who Graham is. They only showed him playing hoops.

Plus, Graham's business is up in NYC. His HTD is back in NC with the fam and his high school.

He was cute tonight... glad we got to see a lightened up version of Graham.

[cupcakes]

I loved how DeAnna said she felt like school girl with butterflies when around Graham....I loved their one on one interaction on the hammock, he seemed so much more relaxed and comfortable around her.....Next week will be very interesting...looking forward to it

[emusha]

this is quite crazy (given the sane, usually objective person I am). but I do suspect i will actually cry next week when graham leaves

OMG this is heartbreaking! It figures that De is searching for a husband and not love, she can't afford to tend to and mend a relationship which needs a lot of care and work.

I think graham is scared of being hurt and scared of taking a risk. I suspect graham pushes 'women' away, given his mommy's verdict...

Also, i think the drinking bit to make it bearable is probably true given its part of his song --- did you see the way he was drinking the night of her date with Jeremy? graham needs a very loving and giving girl who would let him come out of his shell... And since De has been hurt before. Seriously! its not the best combination/timing right now! that is soooooo heartbreaking because their connection is sooo deep and true!

Oh man, wasn't it adorable tho that he asked her: "How are you looking forward to the road trip? Are you ready for it?" sooo considerate. There's something about their conversations that are so real, unscripted...

I can really see where De would be afraid he would leave her ...

I HATED that they didn't show graham's different sides!! his background was quite ridiculous. I guess feliss is hard pressed to minimize footage to show any depth about graham, to put him away as a physical connection...but even he can't edit all the moments away!!
he's chopping away at their connection! For instance:
- after graham and hers' 1 on 1 there was some talking we could hear that happened while twilly was waiting. all of that was cut and the scene going back to them appeared abrupt.
- while i loved the hammock scene, there was inevitably more conversation that just that! they make it look like a highschool date!!

funny that De ends up with the two guys she didn't kiss during today's episode! hehehe

[nuthinsayzluvin]

[quote=brumgirl;3060281;]So Graham's mom is the Candid one. "Graham has a problem of keeping someone pass 4 weeks" is a pretty candid statement. That is GREAT BIG RED FLAG!!! no wonder he did not have longer

Poor Graham, his own mom on his case! What's this world coming to?

[dream fan]

Originally Posted by GrahamGal

I thought the same thing about Mom, but I really can't wait to hear more of that discussion. Their is much more to that conversation and they just used that at the promo for next week.

Yeah I honestly hope the parents see D&G's connection and say something like "he's never felt this way about a girl".

This is really quite painful. The editing in the DTA was sketchy. I just think they're working over time to prove Graham isn't the one, but from the previews they're gonna have to try a lot harder.

[GrahamGal]

Originally Posted by dream fan

What the heck was up with that? I think that maybe they are sticking to a strict script for Graham..."the guy who deAnna likes but can't get to open up"

Even his mom fits the script....oy, oy, oy!

Were there any clips of Graham contemplating his decision not to continue...the whole grandfather bit that we've heard about?

Cause from what I see it just seems that De makes a tough decision and regrets it...doesn't seem like it's Graham's decision at all.

It looks like it was her decison. In the end I think she was afraid of being hurt, but like Trista said sometimes you have to put you heart out their and risk having it broken again.

[goldie2]

Wow...that episode did nothing to convince me that it isn't Graham she wanted all along and even Jason said it ,again..
I really don't get what is going on here..all of a sudden next week are they going to just say he had issues with opening up or something..how will they play this out...and then her saying she regrets it...

The "Dee tells all "seems like an attempt to kinda downplay Graham as just "hot" or something..

I would not be too thrilled if I were any of the remaining guys..

Are we convinced there is no twist here..What about the rumors that note was from him and he said he can't continue,but if in the end he will be there for her..is that reliable at all..


The hammock scene was so good..I am not sure why they left it in..they had an obvious something special there as well...very close and playful..

He also mentioned how they were like a married couple...

very confused...

[Broadway]

Originally Posted by dream fan

Were there any clips of Graham contemplating his decision not to continue...the whole grandfather bit that we've heard about?

Cause from what I see it just seems that De makes a tough decision and regrets it...doesn't seem like it's Graham's decision at all.

No clips of Graham contemplating leaving... but we did see a huge clip of DeAnna crying and yelling at one of the guys that she cannot risk her heart because she has absolutely no idea whether she would get to the altar (the FRC) and find out that he wants to leave her. Then we also saw that clip after the real show about possibly making the wrong decision. I'm thinking it was Graham that she was yelling at because she has expressed so much indecision with him.

[GrahamGal]

Originally Posted by Broadway

Plus, Graham's business is up in NYC. His HTD is back in NC with the fam and his high school.

He was cute tonight... glad we got to see a lightened up version of Graham.

The part where they showed the 6 guys was not from their HTD though.