Graham **SPOILERS**

[ilovemick]

Originally Posted by OregonGal

Since apparently Graham isn't going to be on the show much longer, I found a great shirtless picture to at least have for my avatar. I've saved it, but can't figure out how to get it in there. Can anyone tell me the steps to put a custom photo in the little square? You are all so patient with us newbies ............... thanks much!

Well I just did it. Go to the picture, right click, click properties, right click and copy URL (www.com — the web starts here.) address. Go to your profile, I hit private messages and on the right hand side click edit avatar, scroll down to Custom avatar and paste the URL where it says. The maximum size of your custom image is 125 by 125 pixels or 29.3 KB (whichever is smaller).
I hope that makes sense.

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[OregonGal]

Thanks UORealityFan and ilovemick for your help with changing my avatar. This is one time I wish I was more "nerdy" - ha ha! The next time I post hopefully Graham's abs will be showing.

[KesaiSerris]

I am new so I haven't been able to read everything sorry if this has been discussed or is useless.

I was looking through the screencaps section. In one there's a man holding a ring box (I hope its man or poor woman) anyways is this from this season and if so has anyone analyzed those hands and tried to match them to our remaining boys? I have been trying but I don't pride myself on my visual prowess lol I thought that they looked like Graham's hands sans ring in one of the pictures I saw, but we've established he gets kicked off. I haven't gotten a good image of Jason's hands though so maybe.

[bizbachfan]

The latest twist with this abbreviated RC coming up, perhaps Graham is the one with the tense date (htd) and then decides to forgo the RC 4/3 cut, why travel from east coast back to west coast just for a quickie ceremony to get possibly dumped? Makes sense Graham might take a pass on that

[drparoo]

Originally Posted by bizbachfan

The latest twist with this abbreviated RC coming up, perhaps Graham is the one with the tense date (htd) and then decides to forgo the RC 4/3 cut, why travel from east coast back to west coast just for a quickie ceremony to get possibly dumped? Makes sense Graham might take a pass on that

You know, I think this is probably it. I wonder if when Graham got home, he felt comfortable and relieved, and then having De at his home didn't feel natural to him, and he realized that if he did have any feelings for her they had been falsely exaggerated by the situations of the show. It's very possible that she just wasn't worth him going back to that situation.

There is nothing at all in the world wrong with that, and I've never thought that Graham was a commitment phobe or unable to settle down or whatever. This scene just wasn't for him, the possibility of a future with De just wasn't strong enough to overcome that. That's ok. He can be my cabana boy.

[goldie2]

Originally Posted by drparoo

You know, I think this is probably it. I wonder if when Graham got home, he felt comfortable and relieved, and then having De at his home didn't feel natural to him, and he realized that if he did have any feelings for her they had been falsely exaggerated by the situations of the show. It's very possible that she just wasn't worth him going back to that situation.

There is nothing at all in the world wrong with that, and I've never thought that Graham was a commitment phobe or unable to settle down or whatever. This scene just wasn't for him, the possibility of a future with De just wasn't strong enough to overcome that. That's ok. He can be my cabana boy.

For all who are fans of Graham..this is on the BLF thread BY LYNN from last night...(I am moving it over here)


Originally posted by Lynn7 last night..


I absolutely will not reveal sources but I will tell you what I know. There was a death in the family (his grandfather) earlier this year. He has also told us that, very recently, he broke off the only serious relationship where he has ever fallen in love. I was told that he would be edited as being upset that he didn't get a rose (whatever that's supposed to mean). Maybe it was a roundabout way of saying that he didn't like the connection that she was making with other men and gave them roses instead of him. I don't know. He did ask to leave and, apparently it was due to the death in the family. While, not literally, I think that, figuratively, he didn't have enough time to grieve (the death of his grandfather the death of his first in love relationship) and couldn't cope with the premise of the show (ie: her dating multiple men-he doesn't like to share his woman). Now, as far as I understand it, he has regrets about leaving and is pining for her. He just feels that the timing was wrong but that he felt like he and DeAnna made a connection. Having said that I seriously do see a change in her toward him so whether or not he is truly pining for her doesn't mean that she is for him because I understand that she is very happy with her choice.

[drparoo]

Originally Posted by goldie2

Now, as far as I understand it, he has regrets about leaving and is pining for her. He just feels that the timing was wrong but that he felt like he and DeAnna made a connection.

That's just so sad if it's true. But you know, maybe if Deanna ends up not succeeding with her chosen one they can try again in private.

[goldie2]

Originally Posted by drparoo

That's just so sad if it's true. But you know, maybe if Deanna ends up not succeeding with her chosen one they can try again in private.

Like I said,I am just bringing over what LYNN said on her post..I have no real information other than what she has posted on the BLF thread..

I do believe him to be very genuine..and I do see a real emotional connection between the two,unlike what she has with the others....their story is what has made the show for me this season...

[drparoo]

Originally Posted by goldie2

I do believe him to be very genuine..and I do see a real emotional connection between the two,unlike what she has with the others....their story is what has made the show for me this season...

I think he's genuine, too, and hot as Hades. But more and more I feel frustrated every time I see them together. Watching two people in conflict all the time (and I realize that they edit it this way) is just exhausting for the viewer and at some point you just want it to stop.

[KesaiSerris]

Okay thanks, I had not read that. That is very sad if its the truth. While I am a fan of that relationship in the end I think we all hope things will turn out for the best for everyone, even if its not necessarily who we'd pick in their situation! I really don't have anything against any of the speculated top 4 guys: Jesse, Graham, Jason, well except Jeremy I am sorry but he gives me very odd vibes.