Graham **SPOILERS**

[albean99]

I also can only see the chemistry with Graham. She cares for Jason but not to the same level. I think Graham could be getting either of the f2 edits but not f4. Ian got a very similar edit to Graham's and there have been several f2 that got the chemistry edit. I never saw it with Bettina though. It's certainly going to be interesting to see how they edit the rest of the season.

I don't know if it's going to get ugly after Graham leaves. We all know it's going to happen.

[Google]

 

[2observe]

Originally Posted by SophieMae

I have been having some "What if" thoughts.

Actually to back up a bit. I have to agree with some of the previous posters who have mentioned the "love" word being thrown around way too much. In this case what we are really seeing is "infatuation". There have been epic volumes written about the differences between "love" and "infatuation". There is true "infatuation" between DeAnna and Graham.
If it were "love", there would be none of difficulties and differences that we are seeing. Yes, there can be "love at first sight", but it just keeps getting better and better. "Infatuation at first sight" doesn't get better. It actually goes down hill from there.

My "what if" comes in with Jason. If Jason is F1 as many of us believe, he will not settle for being the consolation prize. He is really astute and really knows how DeAnna feels about all this. I think if he had or has any inclination that DeAnna is settling for him and is really "in love" with Graham, he will not accept the final rose. He is a really smart (and caring!) guy.
I really could picture him at the end going, "I love and care about you. Because of this I want you to be truly happy. This breaks my heart, but I know your heart is really with Graham. Go find him. See if it can work"!

Now that I have that out of my system, I'll go back to Jason's thread and cheer him on!

SophieMae, see post #1111 of this thread. During the last episode, Jason talked about being jealous of Graham and him noticing that De was falling for Graham while he was falling for her. And imo, that says a lot.

[Polynesian Girl]

Originally Posted by cupcakes

Cute name GrahamGal! Welcome to FORT!

yeah cool name! i'm also new..everyone has their own photo to show off on the left side...how do i do that.

thanks for your help.

mahalo!

[Mike'sgirl]

Originally Posted by Secret

Thank you for this post! Unfortunately, similar to what happened with the previous edits you mention - Bettina, Danielle, Bevin, Susan, etc. to name a few - the writing is already on the wall that no matter what happens on the rest of the season, no matter how in love Deanna may seem with whoever she chooses as F1, there will be plenty of people who will be convinced that Deanna loved someone else and that the F1 is "second choice."

It's unfortunate and disappointing, but it happens quite often. Every season, people watch the same show and see the one true love story with different people, and they often feel very strongly about it. It's one of the intriguing things about this show. Is it purely due to the editing? Is it because of personal preferences? Is it due to the sleuthing? Is it a combination of the above? Who the heck knows. It keeps us on our toes, I just don't look forward to the post-Graham period on the show because I have a feeling it's going to get ugly around here.

I think you have read my thoughts and phrased it better then I would have attempted it. Thanks Secret! If TPTB wanted to spin a different story, they would have edited out the passion for Graham scenes. I believe it served as a motivating factor for several events that followed and culminated in a complete softening in her emotions when she walked out preRC hand and hand with Graham and announced the pool party.

Broadway: Now, that was what she was feeling then; it is possible that the edit will change soon, and we will see her reach closure for the Graham fascination and move on to have strong feelings for her F1 - there is still time for us to see a love story play out. But, attraction for Graham is obvious to us at this stage of the show, a thorn in the rose love story.

[lilly21]

I'll be disappointed if Graham isn't F1 (and it's 99.9999% possible he won't be). I see more of a connection with them than anyone else. Everyone who watches the show will see something different...this is my view. Jason seems like a sweet guy though and I like his interactions with Deanna. I'll be pleased with either as F1 (they both seem like great men) but I prefer Graham. Hopefully, all three will find happiness.

[GrahamGal]

Originally Posted by Polynesian Girl

yeah cool name! i'm also new..everyone has their own photo to show off on the left side...how do i do that.

thanks for your help.

mahalo!

In another thread someone said you go up top where it says User CP and pick one. But I need to get one of those of Graham like some others have!

[cupcakes]

Originally Posted by GrahamGal

In another thread someone said you go up top where it says User CP and pick one. But I need to get one of those of Graham like some others have!

GrahamGal and Polynesian Girl ...if you want avatars of Graham, I think i<3realitytv made a few in the avatar thread, so check it out. If you want a specific avatar you can make a request there as well.

Here is the link:
The Bachelorette 4 - A few Avatars

If ya'll need any more help navigating around here, you can always PM me

[ilovemick]

Cupcakes,

Your avatar says it all!!!

After reading Lynn's post to me about how Graham leaves, I was ok, let it go. And then I see your avatar and think, there is no denying they were into each other!! Hope everyone is happy and I will try to move on too.

[OregonGal]

Since apparently Graham isn't going to be on the show much longer, I found a great shirtless picture to at least have for my avatar. I've saved it, but can't figure out how to get it in there. Can anyone tell me the steps to put a custom photo in the little square? You are all so patient with us newbies ............... thanks much!

[UOrealityfan]

Originally Posted by OregonGal

Since apparently Graham isn't going to be on the show much longer, I found a great shirtless picture to at least have for my avatar. I've saved it, but can't figure out how to get it in there. Can anyone tell me the steps to put a custom photo in the little square? You are all so patient with us newbies ............... thanks much!

Go to FAQ on browser at top. It should have your answer.