Graham **SPOILERS**

[pbmax]

Originally Posted by Mike'sgirl

I think that she really has the hots for Graham, and if she does not reach closure on getting over him before he leaves; then no matter how wonderful the remaining guys are - she will still be hungering for Graham. She feels ready to commit, maybe he isn't - that doesn't mean that through determination she will choose someone else and it will magically work out for a happy ending. If she has it for Graham (and I think she has it bad), then until she no longer feels attraction for him in her heart; she will not have longevity of relationship with anyone else. JMO

I feel the same way, in order to choose someone she needs closure. Some seems to think Jason can handle it, but I don't think he can because on the racetrack date he said he was jealous of Graham and that he was falling for Dee but she was falling for another man.

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[Sara23]

I haven't seen much speculation on why the "Men Tell All" is being aired this coming Monday when there are still 6 men in the running. My theory is that Graham left on his own accord after the hometown date and the producers had to scramble to explain his exit in a way that wouldn't look like he just wasn't into Deanna. Thus the ending is not the fairy tale ending that the show's producers wanted - so they're airing the MTA show now while it still has a little life in it. Also, if the producers waited until the final two, they would have to explain why Graham was not there at the MTA show to discuss the last two guys in the finale.

I still believe that Graham is just not that into Deanna and the show. Remember - every guy who goes on this show isn't instantly in love with Deanna. I'm sure that most of the guys didn't know anything about her until the producers showed them pictures/previous show.

This is just my opinion.

[angelic_one2002]

Originally Posted by Sara23

I haven't seen much speculation on why the "Men Tell All" is being aired this coming Monday when there are still 6 men in the running. My theory is that Graham left on his own accord after the hometown date and the producers had to scramble to explain his exit in a way that wouldn't look like he just wasn't into Deanna. Thus the ending is not the fairy tale ending that the show's producers wanted - so they're airing the MTA show now while it still has a little life in it. Also, if the producers waited until the final two, they would have to explain why Graham was not there at the MTA show to discuss the last two guys in the finale.

I still believe that Graham is just not that into Deanna and the show. Remember - every guy who goes on this show isn't instantly in love with Deanna. I'm sure that most of the guys didn't know anything about her until the producers showed them pictures/previous show.

This is just my opinion.

This is my opinion, as well. It's just human nature to have a few/or several there who arent interested/attracted to the bachelor/bachelorette. It's just the way it works.

[glowgirl]

I watched it online today and finally, I'm getting into this show, but if Graham leaves, I'm not sure I'll stay into it. I am a sucker for the Ian-type guy.

So you are 100% sure he leaves soon? What a shame!!!!!!!!!!

[2observe]

Originally Posted by pbmax

I feel the same way, in order to choose someone she needs closure. Some seems to think Jason can handle it, but I don't think he can because on the racetrack date he said he was jealous of Graham and that he was falling for Dee but she was falling for another man.

You're absolutely right. Jason did say that, so now I've convinced that when Graham leaves, he will try to take Graham's place. However, I see things that lead me to believe that Jason is not F1.

[pbmax]

Originally Posted by 2observe

You're absolutely right. Jason did say that, so now I've convinced that when Graham leaves, he will try to take Graham's place. However, I see things that lead me to believe that Jason is not F1.

I'm wondering if he may realize that Dee's heart is still with Graham at the FRC and make a tough decision. I still feel like something is going on with the ending.

[2observe]

Originally Posted by pbmax

I'm wondering if he may realize that Dee's heart is still with Graham at the FRC and make a tough decision. I still feel like something is going on with the ending.

I just can't get the tell tell signs of Jen's Season along with the constant reminders of Brad's Season out of my mind. In both of these Seasons, no one was actually picked; eventho, like DeAnna, Jerry was F1. My guess is that IF she chooses someone, they may accept the rose but not propose. So where would her fairytale ending be? jmo

[sclilred1]

Originally Posted by 2observe

I just can't get the tell tell signs of Jen's Season along with the constant reminders of Brad's Season out of my mind. In both of these Seasons, no one was actually picked; eventho, like DeAnna, Jerry was F1. My guess is that IF she chooses someone, they may accept the rose but not propose. So where would her fairytale ending be? jmo

Oh she WILL chose someone. Can't have her looking like Brad now can we? Even if she isn't really interested in the person she picks, knows that it won't work out because her heart is with someone else, she WILL pick someone. I just hope that they do actually bring someone back this time around (if Graham does in fact leave) because if not whomever she does pick will still feel like second best or that they were picked because she had to pick someone.

[poinsettia]

I still believe that Graham is just not that into Deanna and the show. Remember - every guy who goes on this show isn't instantly in love with Deanna. I'm sure that most of the guys didn't know anything about her until the producers showed them pictures/previous show.

This is just my opinion.[/quote]


Absolutely!
I would like to add that Deanna has assumed this workmanlike attitude to selecting a mate. It is unusual to expect (prod)a guy to open up on the first date. The bachelors(show) were more inclined to let thing things develop watch and take notes...until at least the final four. I find her intensity a litlle off putting. Graham who seems to be skittish in relationships must have been weirded out.

[2observe]

Originally Posted by sclilred1

Oh she WILL chose someone. Can't have her looking like Brad now can we? Even if she isn't really interested in the person she picks, knows that it won't work out because her heart is with someone else, she WILL pick someone. I just hope that they do actually bring someone back this time around (if Graham does in fact leave) because if not whomever she does pick will still feel like second best or that they were picked because she had to pick someone.

Noooo, she wouldn't do that...isn't that DECEPTION