Graham **SPOILERS**

[nessie]

Originally Posted by sclilred1

DeAnna appears to have constant PMS then. Ok, maybe it's just to me that she appears that way. It was just one of the many things that I really could not stand about her on Brad's season. Girl needs to chill out some or she is running the risk of finding herself all alone or with a man that can't stand the sight of her but married her because she wanted a husband. For someone that is set in her ways, expects things done her way, is very vocal about when something displeases her she sure has very little appreciation for someone else who has some of those same qualities themselves.

I couldn't agree more but I'm still enjoying this season. This is one time I won't be disappointed in the outcome because I think De is going to have a tough time maintaining any relationship long term. I think Brad saw that.

[Google]

 

[wonderintern]

Originally Posted by procheervet

This is really very simple, not at all as complicated as everyone here is trying to make it seem, De is into Graham, Graham is into De, Graham cannot come to grips with the whole sharing concept. End of story. The only way this season could be salvaged for me is if Graham shows up for the FRC, anyone else is simply a second choice.

yeah, what she said!!...and hats off to graham for not being one of the herd...especially for being the only one to not wear a cowboy hat...pun intended...

[pajamasam]

Then he shouldn't have gone on the show. It's multiple guys until the very end. Either don't do it or don't whine about it once you've committed to doing it. Own it or leave.

SweetElvira I agree with your point. But I also see the flip side. It may be easy enough to commit to being one of 25 until you realize that you've got real feelings for the girl. The reality must have been mighty different than what he imagined.

When Graham was telling De how difficult it was (at the track) and her reaction was one of hurt I was surprised. She might just as easily have been flattered that it meant that he really cared about her. I keep expecting her to be more understanding of how difficult it is for the men to share. But after last night , I see that it seems to just bring out a bit of panic in her heart. I see her now as frightened, not controlling. In a way - she was right to be so concerned.

I think that once Graham leaves, she will make her peace with it and finally have the chance to give the remaining men her full attention. She's already got some serious chemistry with Jason. I imagine that the fantasy date will open her eyes and heart to that possibility. If she did not have that chemistry with Jason at the start then I would assume that she fell for Graham and only Graham. But the one on one with Jason and their subsequent interactions have been very romantic and endearing. I do agree that you need to have that chemistry from the get go. I just think she had it with more than Graham.

Perhaps De's problem was that she had a surplus of candidates with whom to fall in love.

I wish Graham well and hope he finds love soon as well. He seems like a terrific guy.

[pbmax]

Originally Posted by 2observe

IMO, all Graham would have to do was just show up and that would have put a smile on her face.

Exactly! You see how her mood changed after her 1 on 1 time with him at the RC, she felt so good she wanted to go play in the pool.

[buchan.anne]

what does the terms, F2, F4, mean again

ps. I think there's going to be a twist, because we all know there will be
Graham leaves and most likely comes back, cross your fingers


god he's gorgeous

[cupcakes]

Originally Posted by buchan.anne

what does the terms, F2, F4, mean again

ps. I think there's going to be a twist, because we all know there will be
Graham leaves and most likely comes back, cross your fingers


god he's gorgeous

buchan.anne!

F2 means the final 2 men standing. F4 means the final 4 men standing, and they are the four men who take DeAnna to their hometowns so she can meet their families. Hope this helps

[buchan.anne]

Originally Posted by cupcakes

buchan.anne!

F2 means the final 2 men standing. F4 means the final 4 men standing, and they are the four men who take DeAnna to their hometowns so she can meet their families. Hope this helps

you really need to get on posting the scenes between graham and deanna for episode four, it was so intense, i yelled.
hahaha

thank you for the welcome and the help, alot!

[chrisg]

Originally Posted by cupcakes

I see the resemblance to Cooper especially in regards to the eyes like you stated. But I think he resembles Adam more.

Thanks for the side by side comparison of Graham with Adam Levine cupcakes! Definitely overall Adam Levine with a little Bradley Cooper around the eyes.

[goldie2]

Originally Posted by buchan.anne

god he's gorgeous

I agree..He is absolutely ..on the inside as well it seems...has many,many fans here...

I loved their scenes last week as well ,Graham is by far the most interesting and compelling of all the guys on the show for me..their intensity is genuine and his sincerity about the challenges in this crazy process for him seem to be very real...
all that have left..including Brian now,speak in such high regard of Graham..what a compliment to him...

[emusha]

Transcript for latest graham and Deanna @ RC

G: So talk to me. What's going through your mind?
D: Hurt by our conversation the other day at the racetrack... Uhm...
G: I know that, I don't verbalize things so well...And that is why I kind of just did what I did. I knew you were upset, and so you should be. But it was good to know that seeing you like that caused me pain, because... I care about you. And I hope that means something to you.
D: It does mean something. (we see Graham's lips go into a little smile at this point, him trying to maintain eye contact while she looks down, to the side then back at him as she continues to say) But I think in the short amount of time that we do get together that its just about me and you. If it is 15mins together, that will be 15mins together (at this point Graham starts to nod, still looking at her eyes) and not about (G: Right), the fact that I have connections with other guys or anything like that (G, nodding looking straight into her eyes) <pause>
G: I agree...no...I agree. I know that your emotions are not a light switch and you can't turn them off or on. But, I am hoping, in some minor way they changed a little bit by my concern.
D: I don't ever wanna be confused ...as to why you are here. (at this point she is looking straight into his eyes) <small pause>
G: I am here for you. (with a somewhat 'you shouldn't even question that' expression, he seems surprised by the question. there's a little reflection from his left eye, he nods) D: ok. (more nodding) D: ..k. (they kiss)

I think these two are talking about two completely different things. She's talking about his behavior at the racetrack and trying to tell him he hurt her, he should be attentive to her because along the way nothing should take away from their private time together. She is asking him to give her all of him when they have time together... while he's trying to explain his motives behind his action and to tell her that he cares, that he is in this emotionally. But more so he's asking her implicitly: Does she care as well? have her emotions changed a little bit because of her knowing it's painful for him to watch her with other men. Does it matter to her that he cares for her? He's seeking her reassurance. This interaction showed me he laid it out on the line but maybe that was not so clear to her because of the mixed signals (which happened since he feels very guarded [as he said] about laying it all out there).

What he should have said imo is: i did what i did because i am falling for you (though i find that hard to verbalize) and it hurts me to see you with the other men, does that make any difference to how you feel about me when you know that it hurts me like this? Do your emotions change?

I think his whole act this episode was a way to figure out whether Dee felt anything for him different from the other men because he "can't get past thinking she has shared something he thought was very special with other people". Though, it is hardly fair to her since she has to divide her attention as well as affection amongst the other men to make it fair, and because she doesn't know them very well yet.