Graham **SPOILERS**

[sclilred1]

Originally Posted by simplechef

I think Deanna may have had a PMS moment, and grace is a good thing to extend to her. I can't imagine how stressful it is to have to make such hard decisions. Deanna likes being in the drivers seat, and by not being in that position, I think she felt pretty insecure and odd to be at a BBQ instigated by the guys. When the tables were turned for the pool party, she had a great time. I think having a curve ball thrown at her in the midst of a stressful situation, sent her over the edge, thus her rant at the guys.

DeAnna appears to have constant PMS then. Ok, maybe it's just to me that she appears that way. It was just one of the many things that I really could not stand about her on Brad's season. Girl needs to chill out some or she is running the risk of finding herself all alone or with a man that can't stand the sight of her but married her because she wanted a husband. For someone that is set in her ways, expects things done her way, is very vocal about when something displeases her she sure has very little appreciation for someone else who has some of those same qualities themselves.

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[pbmax]

Originally Posted by CAdreamin

I'm not sure that she would have preferred Graham there to comfort her rather than Jason because she said something along the lines of she wouldn't want to be with any one else when Jason was holding her.

In a voiceover, that we don't really know who she was talking about, conveniently placed. Look at how she is when she is with Graham (the face, smile) than when she is with Jason (no emotion). Look at how her mood and attitude changed after her 1 on 1 time with Graham at the RC, she was ready for some fun and play time. She sprung back to life.

[Bet2Win]

Originally Posted by pbmax

Yes she's been through this, but she's the one passing out the roses this time, not the guys. They have to hope they get a rose...not quiet the same this time around.

But since she's been on the receiving end, I don't understand her yelling at them to go home if they can't deal with her being on dates with other men ... She was mad at Robert for going inside, yet he didn't choose to be there, she did. It was obvious he would have rather stayed at her house than go to the outhouse ... what's the point of staying at her house only to return to the outhouse during that timeframe.

It seemed to me she was throwing a tantrum because they all weren't outside fawning over her, or asking for 1 on 1 time with her.

[angelic_one2002]

Originally Posted by sclilred1

Honestly at this point and based on the way that DeAnna has been behaving as of late, I vote for the go home option for all of the guys. Heck, I am sure we all have some lovely, single female friends that would love a chance to date any of the remaining men.

GREAT post! And I vote your post..post of the day.

[Bet2Win]

Originally Posted by SweetElvira

I think Graham should start acting like a man and either go along with the program as he agreed to or go home. Preferably the latter.

I respect Graham for being true to himself ... and not a morphed person for the sake of the show.

[sclilred1]

Originally Posted by angelic_one2002

GREAT post! And I vote your post..post of the day.

Awww shucks! Thanks! Although I think that there are alot of great posts on here I do appreciate that.

I remember back when I first found out that DeAnna was going to be The Bachelorette. I was shocked, disappointed and frankly a little ticked. This is my first ever season of seeing a Bachelorette and I had a very strong idea of what I was going to see with DeAnna being the one chosing. So far DeAnna hasn't let me down. She has shown me that she is in fact just like she was on Brad's season and that it was not just a case of editing gone bad. She is brash, rude, arrogant, conceited, too outspokenand just not someone that I would consider being friendly with much less friends with. Graham and the other guys left really should have watched how she was with Brad and the women on that season before even considering if they really wanted a shot with this woman or not. Heck, Fleiss should get them the season on dvd and let the final 4 watch them now before it is to late. I think that Graham is absolutely 100% correct in guarding his heart, after all, look at the others that she has let go. The minute they open up she shows them the door. If only I could watch the show with less DeAnna and more of the remaining guys but I know that isn't possible. Why do I continue to watch? Because I keep hoping that DeAnna will grow up and realize what an amazing opportunity she has been given, maybe she will prove me wrong. God I hope so for the sake of the men that she is going to leave shattered and broken hearted at the end of this season.

Sorry for the rant and of course as usual the above is my opinion only.

[twinnies]

Not sure how this is going to play out but in the end I have to wonder if Graham, who seems like a level-headed and genuine guy, says you know if she is trying to force this then maybe it isn't right for BOTH of us.

It seems as if Deanna is so determined that she expects so much out of them. In hindsight I think Jason of all the guys is the one that has the luxury of taking it nice and slow and hasn't been expected to be a certain way (unlike Graham who was the first 1-on-1 with HUGE expectations on Deanna's part). She keeps on pressing Graham and Jeremy is forthcoming with how he feels.

I get that she is in the driver's seat but feelings can't be forced.

Still loving Graham!

[procheervet]

Originally Posted by SweetElvira

I think Graham should start acting like a man and either go along with the program as he agreed to or go home. Preferably the latter.

I think Graham is acting like a man, what man wants his woman being intimate with other men - what is more manly than being a little territorial?

[brumgirl]

there is an article over on JU that talks about De's behavior and her interaction with Graham. DeAnna just expected Graham to kiss on order which i think she expected him to do and was shock when he refused. Out of all the guys, the interaction between Graham and DeAnna shows a real relationship, the give and take of emotions.

[Bambie]

Originally Posted by Bet2Win

But since she's been on the receiving end, I don't understand her yelling at them to go home if they can't deal with her being on dates with other men ... She was mad at Robert for going inside, yet he didn't choose to be there, she did. It was obvious he would have rather stayed at her house than go to the outhouse ... what's the point of staying at her house only to return to the outhouse during that timeframe.

It seemed to me she was throwing a tantrum because they all weren't outside fawning over her, or asking for 1 on 1 time with her.

Deanna wanted to go to the outhouse party because that's where Graham was. Deanna threw a fit at the party because Graham was inside and wasn't trying to spend time with her. She was already upset with him for not kissing her when she wanted it at the race track and she blew up. I don't think it had anything to do with Robert he was just a convenient scapegoat and she needed someone to yell at. Just my take....