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I just watched the whole clip and all I can say is wow, entitled much? I know this is her show and it is a very high pressured situation, but geez Deanna, its not the end of the world if half of these men are not worshiping the ground you walk on. JMHO.
I am not saying she had no reason to be upset, I really don't know but handling the way she did could seriously turn some of the guys off who are actually really into her but afraid of her emotional side, and not being able to handle it. JMO, nothing against Deanna, I just truly felt embarrassed for herOriginally Posted by ducky2;3044950;
I've said this before, but these guys need to realize that when you're in a relationship that its not always sunshine and roses and that sometimes your significant other is going to get upset and have a blow up moment like De did. It should not be that big of a deal. Things like this happen all the time in relationships and while I do think De could've handled the situation better by maybe taking the guys that she was specifically upset with aside and speaking with them directly it does not matter, because it would've still wound up on air anyways as that is how Fleiss and this show works. The bottom line is that things like this are going to happen in relationships and sometimes its the girl and sometimes its the guy, but whoever it is if a person can't handle it then they're much better off to leave because things like this are just a fact of life. In short, if they can't stand the heat, then they need to get the heck out of the kitchen. Like I said, things like this are just a fact of life and if they don't know how to handle it, then they need learn how to handle it or go home and grow up.
Several of us posters share your opinion.I just watched the whole clip and all I can say is wow, entitled much? I know this is her show and it is a very high pressured situation, but geez Deanna, its not the end of the world if half of these men are not worshiping the ground you walk on. JMHO.
This is a TV show for our entertainment (I think.) We can hash out what we actually are allowed to see of the "blow-up" after the show tomorrow. I have a feeling, though, that all the contestants and the lead are just a tad cranky at this point in their filmed lives.
Supposedly, the guys have been comparing notes and ideas in their circle of comraderie and have decided that DeAnna is really interested in only two men. Which two? I don't know if we'll discover their conclusion during the show - but that conclusion is sure to bring morale down into the pits. The other seven, at least, must have had on their grumpy or apathetic (don't care anymore) faces.
So...DeAnna arrives at this swamp all ready for time with her "guys" and BOOM! Apathy heads indoors for pool (possibly) while grumpy tosses chairs and swills beer. BLOWUP! "If ya'll don't care, then leave!"
My take on what we haven't seen yet.
Well, Robert TRIED to explain or even apologize about the situation, and Deanna so curtly and rudely cut him right off still hollering. My dh said he would have found the nearest door....but those poor guys arent allowed to leave I dont believe.
I watched Trista's season again this week, and this guy came up at a RC and politely excused himself from being in the running. Chris Harrison had repeatedly told them they were to do that if they felt that Trista was not someone they thought they could see themselves eventually marrying. When this guy excused himself, Chris and Trista agreed. They panned the other guys' faces. The looked a little startled but not blown away.
I think if a guy realizes that DeAnna is not for him based on anything - chemistry or her behavior - then he needs to excuse himself from the running just as the guy in Trista's series did. If several of them do, well so be it. That is why they are supposed there - to see if they can find a love match. If it isn't there because they don't jive and they know it, then they should leave.
It's happened before that someone asks to leave but CH usually gets annoyed because he thinks they know they weren't going to get a rose anyway. I have a feeling that sometimes they know they don't have a connection but stay anyway because at least it's facetime on tv.
I think we all need to withhold judgement on this whole blow up scene as we haven't yet seen the scene that instigates it. Once we've seen it and if you feel that De was not valid in being upset then have at it. Personally I think she will be validated (I've said it before and I'll say it again (and keep in mind this is only my opinion), but I don't believe that some of these guys have put their "whole heart" into this and this is quite obviously very serious business for De, so if they either need to step up to the plate or go home), but that's jmo.
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