I think Emily would be very controlling in a relationship, so the waking up at 9 a.m. isn't going to cut it for her husband. Jef is probably the easiest of the three to control because he already hangs on her every word and then jumps in and says he agrees with whatever she says. I'd love to get a good sense of what his mother is like! One other thing is that Jef has said a couple of times about how he wants Emily and Ricki to travel with him, so I hope he means a summer trip when school is out and doesn't expect that that they, or even he and Emily alone, can just pick up and go off adventuring whenever the mood strikes, unless Emily won't mind leaving Ricki with a nanny or family so she can go off and do her thing. Oh wait, she's already done that twice. I wonder how domesticated he really is ... he seems a bit of a wild child who doesn't want to spend his life at a 9-5 and then bake cookies and bring juice to the park.