I don't think that Emily was really all that upset with the guys about them "not telling her fast enough" or "didn't have her back". The biggest issue that she had was that there was one guy who spoke his mind and called Ricki baggage, but how many of the others are thinking similar things and not saying them out loud? Any single parent can tell you, do not EVER call their child baggage.....PERIOD. Emily also wasn't feeling that well with her throat and all. You add all of those things up and you get one very frustrated woman who might overreact. And if she does? So what, deal with it. Life is messy. Life with a partner is even messier. Life with a partner and a child.........well, you can only imagine how much of a mess that would be.
I think it has been forgotten that production plays a role in who gets the rose in the order they are handed out. It could have been that Emily wanted to give Arie a rose first and was told no, give him the last one to hype up the drama.
When Jef was standing behind Sean tonight you could see the difference in the two. It looked like a man standing in front of a child. While Jef is sweet and cute, he really needs someone closer to his age maturity wise. I just don't see Emily as a good fit for him. My soon-to-be 15 year old daughter said she would take him when she gets a little bit older...lol
Ryan did have a funny outtake tonight. He didn't appear to be so much of a douche. Perhaps production has been editing him to be much worse than he is?!?