I like Jef! I believed Emily had a spark for him the moment she saw him . . . as for looking young, lucky guy, although I think Emily looks her age, not older than her age! Perhaps I am bias because my husband is 5 years younger than me, and the first time I laid eyes on him my heart fluttered, it took two years until we had a date because when I first saw him he was 23 and I was 28 and well he looked and was young! I was 30 when we had our first date, 32 when we married and 35 when we had our first child . . . so he was only 27 when we married! 24 years later, we look similar in age, and who the heck cares - if one person looks younger than the other, compatibility, love, happiness, etc. is what really matters - also if Jef went on the show more prepared because it was Emily, good for him!