Everything has an end. Only the sausage has two. - Monroe, from Grimm
I'm going to wait and see if she has a 1 on 1 date with Jef to determine how much chemistry they have, but even then we never know if we getting the whole truth. So far I think Emily is intrigued by Jef and is waiting for Jef to make a move.
Last edited by CruGirl13; 06-04-2012 at 10:21 AM.
Emily is intrigued with Jef. He represents someone new and different to her. He is not pursuing her like the other guys have so far. I read that Emily said that he is shy. So, CruGirl13, I agree that Emily finds Jef intriguing at this point in the show.
Chemistry on this show can either be downplayed or highlighted to a certain extent. And we have all seen in past seasons that great chemistry does not necessarily mean that those couples can navigate the hurdles that come with taking that relationship into the real world afterwards. Jef and Emily's upbringing and life styles in general are polar opposites in many ways, AND he lives clear across the country from her friends and family. These differences can either make or break a couple, even if the chemistry is off the charts.
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Last edited by Arielflies; 06-04-2012 at 12:25 PM.
I do have a favorite among the guys, but I am not that emotionally invested in this season, so I will be okay with whoever Emily chooses. It is better for me to look at it like this, because the guys I usually like rarely end up being the F1 anyway.
Last edited by Longhornfan; 06-04-2012 at 02:46 PM.
The way I see it is, this show is like speed dating on drugs...everything moves really fast. At the beginning of most relationships, physical attraction and chemistry is what generally drives the bus. You know, the 'honeymoon' of a relationship, before you get to know and accept the less desirable attributes of your loved one. That initial chemistry can fizzle or it can carry you into the next phase. I think chemistry is really important at this stage, especially with this show, since these people barely know each other. That's not to say the couple with the most chemistry will end up together, but I think if there is NO apparent chemistry at this point, the show moves along too fast to wait for it.
I wonder if some of the couples could have developed a solid relationship had there been no engagement or "I love you's" said. The slow build up to intimacy both physical and emotional is an important part of the mating dance.