Emily seems ambitious. She wants a man who "deserves" her. She doesn't want to settle. Her father is extremely wealthy and she wants the finer things in life. There's nothing wrong with that. Many women have had hard scrabble lives and that is admirable but there's nothing wrong with being beautiful, rich, charming or able to do what one wants with her life. I don't see how Emily has misled or lied about anything. There's really no reason for the show to talk about how rich her father was or whether she's gone to Nashville. What she stated on the Bachelor was that she was single (which is true), that she was a single mom (which is true), that she and the guy were in a monogamous relationship looking to get married (which is true) and that she was ready for love (which is true). What's the problem?