After reading some of the comments I went back and rewatched Jillian & Ed's part and saw a nice bit with them being normal. There may have been problems in their relationship but it didn't show and Jillian certainly didn't admit that Ed cheated on her after the engagement. I really think it's too easy to make judgments on relationships from the outside when we have no idea what's going on inside. It's easy to say the one person is to blame but in most relationships it's a combination of things on both sides. I think Jillian & Ed are talking a break but have not broken up which I'm sure will cause a lot of criticism but I say they should do what makes them happy and not worry about what others will say.
It's far too soon to say that A/R have passed any test in their relationship. What they're doing now is the easy part and everyone wants their pic and to hear what they have to say. The hard part is trying to have a real relationship and not a tv speed-courtship.