All I know is, if I was Chris, I'd be very worried about being with a woman, who was madly in love with another man and heartbroken over him mere hours before pursuing a relationship with me. Seriously, if this were a man pulling this stunt, we'd be calling for his head.
Everyone kept saying how worried they were for Des, frankly, it's Chris I'm worried for. It's all easy to get caught up in the fantasy of this show, hell, even in real life, and allowing oneself to be dazzled by diamond engagement rings etc. But none of that amounts to a hill of beans if there's no real love there, or if it's one-sided love. And I'll never believe that Des fell in love in Chris that quickly. Not in a million years.
The feeling I'm getting from Des is that she wants to get married at any cost. I'm smelling the stench of desperation here. A trap I see many women falling into. They get so caught up in the idea of marriage that they'll marry a man just to say their married, in love with him or not.