OK, I know DeAnna isn't popular here on Fort and people think she's a big ol' famewhore too, but I like her. I noticed her tweets about the 20/20 special, seems clear to me that she's referring to Jesse:
Someone asked why she didn't talk to Jesse anymore, she replied: "things just didn't end on a good note with me & him. There's a lot of pain & anger there that no one knows about"
"Loved the nicknames they dubbed for the people who they cast.....The Opportunist Go figure"
Someone asked her, "Hi Deanna, I hadn't pegged Jesse as an opportunist until I saw the special. Do you think that was a fair portrayal?" and she replied with a simple "yes."
There is a new interview with her at haveuheard.net, I think she's referring to Jesse in this answer without actually saying his name.
Q: Do you think Steven is the one?
DeAnna: I do. We have a wonderful relationship, we have a wonderful understanding. He makes me happy. He’s with me because of me. He’s not with me because of fame or money or the bachelorette or anything. He’s with me because of who I am. It makes such a difference in the relationship.