Personally..I think the whole "don't kiss me thing" was a gimmick she cooked up for herself as a way to get more attention..i.e., TV time. Obviously it backfired. By the time Jake finished talking with her...I couldn't figure out if she did or did not want to be kissed..or when. Jake appeared uncomfortable and tired and as if the whole thing made him feel rather silly. Can't say I blame him.