you know what girls? melissa will be just fine. she conducted herself with dignity and grace throughout the ENTIRE process in the bachelor. she never pulled out the claws or was mean to anyone. she is a beautiful person inside and out. she will one day find a guy who will sweep her off her feet and love her just for who she is. if he didn't want her, then she is much better off to find someone who will. maybe someone who has never been married, or who already has a child. with all the publicity from the bachelor, she will now be well known, & guys will try to meet her as they will already feel like they have an idea of what a quality person she really is!