No one who has any connection with Melli, including Melli herself, has ever said she is or was a victim. Quite the contrary: her statement directly was I'm OK, I'm not a victim. So, it's a false dichotomy: that one is necessarily the victim of the other. Mel is not a victim at all. Jason is a victim, that's true. Jason is a victim of himself. Of his neediness, of his whimpiness, of his sleaziness, or his pathological need to pad the truth to his own benfit. It didn't take Melli or anyone else to expose him to the world: he did it for himself. Everytime he opens his mouth. He was , according to him, a victim of his divorce as that's what got him the hook on The B(ette); he was a victim of Dee and played that to the hilt to get TB; he was a victim of TPTB in this whole mess; he was a victim of his emotions. Blah Blah Blah.Originally Posted by northernviewer;3381893;
Melli played no one. What you see is what you get. This is how she was as a DCC. But, she's no dummy. She has a BS in Finance, with teaching credits as well. Sorry, but you don't get that without having some substance to you. Everyone saw how natural she is with children. If she, at 25, has a chance to have a good time and get past that turd, and then pick up her life, more power to her.
Yes, she is bubbly, and quirky and makes funny faces at time. Yes, she speaks from the heart and it's not always "perfect" in what she says or how she says it. It's a hell of a lot more fun to be around that sour puss, sarcastic, racoon eyed, pony tailed princess/assitant buyer at Kohl's Molly who believes the world owes her a living, thinks big words and sarcasm cover for selfishness and a cold heart, and equal smarts (they don't). And who is "poor me-ing" the fact that nobody is impressed by the "love is selfesh"/hold me, squeeze, me, kiss me tour she and Jascum are on.
But everyone to their own devices and choices. That's what makes it fun, right?