I agree. I see nothing wrong with wanting to have fun, esp. when you've been recruited. Who knows what you are getting yourself into. You may click with this guy or you may not. It will still be "fun" in some sense. I also don't fault her for working in touristy places. Good grief, I hope no one ever judges me by my youthful parttime employment. You make money where you can when you're still getting your education.