I am going to bring up the YouTube videos here even though it was awhile back when they were discussed. I watched the Bevin/Andy video and hated it! Then the Tessa/Andy one and felt warm and fuzzy. Watch them both one after the other. The Bevin vid seems only to have kissing material, it's just over and over again the making out scenes which is really eye opening as to the depth of whatever "relationship" there is.
Tessa's video has many tender moments shared and not alot of kissing. There's a depth to those encounters that is completely lacking with Bevin. B's vid is actually really boring because all the vid shows is making out scenes...enough already. Anyway, I found it really eye opening to watch these both and compare.
I also agree with so many of you! I'm 47 and I get so emotionally into these Bachelor shows it's embarrasing! After all, it's not my life it's theirs and whoever Andy chooses is obviously his best choice not ours...(but he'd BETTER chose Tessa!)
One more thing...funny! I have a son who is almost 18 and when I watch Bachelor he wants me to call him whenever Tessa and Andy are together and at the FRC and he leaves when Andy is with the other women, cracks me up! I guess he is a romantic deep down and he sees the connect too