Bevin - Bachelor 10

[sueb1961]

I think I remember reading someting like that. Not sure though grneyedgirl

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[Jewelsy]

You guys, we're WAY past the sleuthing stuff. If you want to revisit it, there are hundreds of posts in the Spoiler/Speculation forum about the time of day, wind direction, weather, etc.

Let's just let it go.

[MomLady]

Originally Posted by Jewelsy

You guys, we're WAY past the sleuthing stuff. If you want to revisit it, there are hundreds of posts in the Spoiler/Speculation forum about the time of day, wind direction, weather, etc.

Let's just let it go.

I have so let it go. I do not want to go and revisit it.

I asked the original questionin post #983, because I started reading post about time of day and Bevin knowing she got rejected. I just wanted to make sure I had not missed anything new.

Sorry if I caused to any problems.

[Jewelsy]

No worries, MomLady. We'll all just move on now.

[momsunshine]

I love Bevin and I think she should post more pictures of her and Andy. I think it would also be funny for her to have the song Never Again by Kelly Clarkson on her myspace. Why do I think this is funny? Because I don't believe in A&T and I think Bevin knows something. All in good time. I hate the negative reaction to her.

[pminn1608]

Originally Posted by momsunshine

I love Bevin and I think she should post more pictures of her and Andy. I think it would also be funny for her to have the song Never Again by Kelly Clarkson on her myspace. Why do I think this is funny? Because I don't believe in A&T and I think Bevin knows something. All in good time. I hate the negative reaction to her.

There should be no negatives against either Tessa or Bevin. Negative should lie with Andy, who stated the ILY's to both girl's. Niether girl allegedly knowing the other had reached his profession of Love. Somehow, Bevin started receiving the negative f/r and a/f/r because she professed she was hurt. Why? is she not allowed to tell of her experience?

[MomLady]

Originally Posted by momsunshine

I love Bevin and I think she should post more pictures of her and Andy. I think it would also be funny for her to have the song Never Again by Kelly Clarkson on her myspace. Why do I think this is funny? Because I don't believe in A&T and I think Bevin knows something. All in good time. I hate the negative reaction to her.

Is it really helping Bevin, heal and move on if she is posting picutres of herself with Andy identifying herself as a part of Andy.

Having picutre of the Bachelor experience with her the girls or Andy are on them on her myspace is viewed as OK.

Many object to the picutres that she uses to identify herself with.

I think the negative reaction may also come from the fact that she is saying she is Tessa's friend, supports and wants Tessa and Andy to be happy, yet she is using pictures of Tessa's fiancee to identify herself. That is sending mixed signals as to what she wants. Does she want Tessa and Andy to be happy, or does she want them to break up because she wants Andy back.

If she wants Tessa and Andy to break up, then Bevin and is not ready to move on.

In both cases, it has nothing to do with Bevin is feeling sad about what may have been for her. She needs to deal with the saddness in a way that is least hurtful to herself and to people she claims are friends.

[angelic_one2002]

I say - 'To each his own'.. If you feel secure with the fact that Andy and Tessa are happy, then what Bevin does shouldn't concern us.

[momsunshine]

Originally Posted by MomLady

Is it really helping Bevin, heal and move on if she is posting picutres of herself with Andy identifying herself as a part of Andy.

Having picutre of the Bachelor experience with her the girls or Andy are on them on her myspace is viewed as OK.

Many object to the picutres that she uses to identify herself with.

I think the negative reaction may also come from the fact that she is saying she is Tessa's friend, supports and wants Tessa and Andy to be happy, yet she is using pictures of Tessa's fiancee to identify herself. That is sending mixed signals as to what she wants. Does she want Tessa and Andy to be happy, or does she want them to break up because she wants Andy back.

If she wants Tessa and Andy to break up, then Bevin and is not ready to move on.

In both cases, it has nothing to do with Bevin is feeling sad about what may have been for her. She needs to deal with the saddness in a way that is least hurtful to herself and to people she claims are friends.

Why should she forget an important event in her life? I think she has every right to do what she wants. She is bound by contract and cannot talk about it, but she can express this way.

[MomLady]

Originally Posted by angelic_one2002

I say - 'To each his own'.. If you feel secure with the fact that Andy and Tessa are happy, then what Bevin does shouldn't concern us.

I completely agree.

I am not worried about what Bevin may do to Andy and Tessa. Both are strong individuals and a great couple.

As a human being, I am worried about Bevin's actions.

The only way I would not be worried about Bevin, is if she was positng pictures of her and Andy as identifying herself with malicious intent to garnish sympathy from anyone. That would just turn me off.