Bevin - Bachelor 10

[sueb1961]

Originally Posted by ldcook77

I agree, and would add what Bevin is doing/saying to that as well. If they are so in love, I just don't see them really caring what photo is on Bevin's myspace page. I personally don't see the big deal, and apparently neither do they.

I agree with your post, I guess some just think Bevin has an alterior motive for everything she does. Some will say that Andy uses his fame to support his cause, I am starting to wonder if Andy doesn't use his causes to support his fame.

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[pajamasam]

I just don't see them really caring what photo is on Bevin's myspace page.

I'm sure they could care less. But analysing Bevin's motivations in posting them helps us to understand her.

[ldcook77]

Originally Posted by sueb1961

I agree with your post, I guess some just think Bevin has an alterior motive for everything she does. Some will say that Andy uses his fame to support his cause, I am starting to wonder if Andy doesn't use his causes to support his fame.

It seems like we are on the same page tonight! I find myself to every one of your posts.

Andy's need for fame is one of the things that make me wonder about how long this will last. I wonder how "let down" he will feel once he gets his normal life back. They are eventually going to fade away (out of the limelight), and I don't think that day can come soon enough for Tessa, and I don't think HDA ever wants it to come.

[soccermama]

I think Bevin is just giving the fans on her My Space what they want. They want to hear about her and the show because that is the only aspect of her life that they know about.

As far as Bevin's and Andy's relationship being over since March, just remember, she had to keep that a secret for as long as Andy and Tessa had to keep their relationship secret. Remember, Andy and Tessa had each other to lean on and talk to each other while the show was airing. Bevin had nobody that she could talk to or confide in. She probably just had to tuck away all the hurt feelings from the show until the finale ~ so she really has only had 3 weeks to deal w/the break up and all the fall out from it.

[ldcook77]

Originally Posted by soccermama

As far as Bevin's and Andy's relationship being over since March, just remember, she had to keep that a secret for as long as Andy and Tessa had to keep their relationship secret. Remember, Andy and Tessa had each other to lean on and talk to each other while the show was airing. Bevin had nobody that she could talk to or confide in. She probably just had to tuck away all the hurt feelings from the show until the finale ~ so she really has only had 3 weeks to deal w/the break up and all the fall out from it.

THANK YOU! I have posted this exact same thing a few times throughout this board. I keep reading that she should get over it already...it's been three months.

But, healing from heartache is not something you can do alone, so in reality, she has only had about three weeks to really begin the healing process. At the same time, she is attempting to make her fans happy through her myspace and fansite communications, and at the same time, she is being lynched by her "non-fans". I just hope she continues to focus her energy on the positive and ignore the negative.

[beachgirl4]

Originally Posted by jasmar

How and by whom? Maybe a new reality show: The Bachelor: Kangaroo Court. If I were a writer, I'd volunteer to recap!

ETA: It's actually not been a friendly discussion far too often. And the intensity seems a little odd to me, personally, at this stage of the game.

I agree on all points. Bottom line - nothing will change the outcome of the show, the relationships of those involved have all moved on, so the rest is history.

[MomLady]

I am a bit confused.

Why are some people saying that Bevin, knew she was getting rejected, because of the time of day, being morning?

I did not here her say Good Morning. It was cloudy etc, but the colouring did not look like morning, early evening just the start of sunset? (Looked like the sun was in the same postition for Tessa, until it peaked out of the clouds.)

Is there any proof of time, that I have missed.

[sueb1961]

I don't think it was morning either MomLady. I think the confusion is because some thought they heard Bevin say good morning when she walked up to Andy at the rc. I think what she said was How are you or something like that.

[MomLady]

Originally Posted by sueb1961

I don't think it was morning either MomLady. I think the confusion is because some thought they heard Bevin say good morning when she walked up to Andy at the rc. I think what she said was How are you or something like that.

Thank you sueb.

I was starting to wonder, because the sun seemed in the same general area, there was some sun seen from the clouds, to give an indication of were it was.

[grneyedgirl]

I think I read somewhere, heard somewhere, that said that Bevin was told that she had to be ready at 2PM for the FRC.

Am I imagining things?