Bevin - Bachelor 10 - Page 97

sueb1961 · 06-14-2007, 09:41 PM

I just came from Bevins myspace and I noticed that Andy and Tessa and the Andy Baldwin official fan site was added. I would think if they had a problem with Bevins myspace they wouldn't have joined. I also see that Mitch has some movie deal going. I don't remember any of the detail. I just kinda glanced at it.

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ldcook77 · 06-14-2007, 09:51 PM

sueb1961, well said! I also noticed that the A/T fansite was added as her friend. If they have such a problem, why request or approve her site as a friend????

If A/T's love is as great as Andessa fans like to believe, then who cares what Bevin says or does?

As a Bevin fan, I am glad she is communicating with her fans. I am glad that she is taking whatever steps necessary to heal and move past this. While it may have only been six weeks of her life, it was no doubt a life changing part of her life. Why should she just pretend it never happened or that Andy was not part of it? Why should she not answer the questions of her fans for fear of upsetting those who have called her the likes of slut, liar, fameho, drama queen, manipulator and much worse?

Personally, I hope she continues to ignore those who want to pretend her relationship with Andy never existed, and focus on the fans who want to know more about what really happened between the two of them.

ldcook77 · 06-14-2007, 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by stickle

Why not? The 'joining' is more likely to have been initiated by Bevin. If Bevin and/or her fans requested an add to the fan list of Andy and Tessa, why would they deny it if everybody left on good terms as it appeared on ATFR?

Why is it so hard to believe that they didn't request it from Bevin. And, if she did make the request, no one would ever know if they either denied or never accepted.

If they believe, as so many of their fans, that she is trying to sabotage their relationship with the meaningless photos on her fansite, why accept?

pminn1608 · 06-14-2007, 10:43 PM

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Originally Posted by skigal

As with Andy being labelled a cad because of the ILY. In the same token, Bevin can be labelled as fameho because of her continuous insistent for living in the past glory . The glory was over once she became F2 but her continuous dwelling and indirect hinting of whatever one-sided story she is dying to tell based on all her communication everywhere shows someone who might need some serious therapy.

The premise of the show require a F2 for drama, for ATFR, for tears. so SAD but so TRUE.

The show was over since Mar 14, it's been 3 months today. The glory belongs to the Bachelor and his F1.

Does Moana need therapy, she still talks about and talks with Dr Stork, she still talks about the bachelor.

grneyedgirl · 06-14-2007, 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by ldcook77

well said! I also noticed that the A/T fansite was added as her friend. If they have such a problem, why request or approve her site as a friend????

If A/T's love is as great as Andessa fans like to believe, then who cares what Bevin says or does?

As a Bevin fan, I am glad she is communicating with her fans. I am glad that she is taking whatever steps necessary to heal and move past this. While it may have only been six weeks of her life, it was no doubt a life changing part of her life. Why should she just pretend it never happened or that Andy was not part of it? Why should she not answer the questions of her fans for fear of upsetting those who have called her the likes of slut, liar, fameho, drama queen, manipulator and much worse?

Personally, I hope she continues to ignore those who want to pretend her relationship with Andy never existed, and focus on the fans who want to know more about what really happened between the two of them.

ITA!

IMO, and my opinion only, if someone doesn't want to see what is on her myspace, don't go to it. It seems pretty simple to me.

Her relationship with Andy did exist...as it did with some of the other woman. If those feelings didn't exist, I don't think that he would have been so choked up at the ATFR.

Does anybody know where Bevin is getting these pictures? I noticed that Amber also has some bachelor pics on her myspace. Maybe Andy had a camera and he is sending them to the girls...who knows!

About the ILY...I totally get that some people tell their friends they love them. I tell my dearest friends that I love them quite frequently. I have some guy friends that know that I love them dearly and I know they feel the same way. I think that it is very important to let those close to us know the value they add to our lives.

That being said, I have never told a friend--male or female--ILY and them proceeded to make out with them or asked them to "pinch me". Maybe a little side hug with the guys...but that is all. Maybe I am old fashioned. I, personally, could never use the word "love"--meaning friendship--and physical intimacy in the same sentence.

ldcook77 · 06-14-2007, 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted by skigal

As with Andy being labelled a cad because of the ILY. In the same token, Bevin can be labelled as fameho because of her continuous insistent for living in the past glory . The glory was over once she became F2 but her continuous dwelling and indirect hinting of whatever one-sided story she is dying to tell based on all her communication everywhere shows someone who might need some serious therapy.

The premise of the show require a F2 for drama, for ATFR, for tears. so SAD but so TRUE.

The show was over since Mar 14, it's been 3 months today. The glory belongs to the Bachelor and his F1.

I think as long as Bevin has so many fans wanting to hear from her, she has just as much right to communicate with them as A/T does. The glory belongs to whoever the fans want to hear from, and Bevin apparently has quite the following and therefore, I don't see it as necessary for her to "fade to black" until she is personally ready to.

I imagine after the let down she went through with Andy, it is probably quite helpful and therapeutic for her to know so many people still adore her and were pulling for her.

And, as I said earlier, just as A/T weren't allowed to "show/celebrate" their love, Bevin was not allowed to openly grieve until the airing of the FRC, regardless of when it was filmed. Yes, she could have been working things out inside her, but IMO, it takes being able to be open and talk about things before the healing can really begin.

stickle · 06-14-2007, 10:57 PM

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Originally Posted by ldcook77

If they believe, as so many of their fans, that she is trying to sabotage their relationship with the meaningless photos on her fansite, why accept?

Because they're too busy going on with their lives to spend time worrying about what the fans are saying? And since they supposedly were on good terms they'd have no reason to not accept Bevin's invitation to be a 'friend'?

sueb1961 · 06-14-2007, 11:02 PM

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Originally Posted by skigal

As with Andy being labelled a cad because of the ILY. In the same token, Bevin can be labelled as fameho because of her continuous insistent for living in the past glory . The glory was over once she became F2 but her continuous dwelling and indirect hinting of whatever one-sided story she is dying to tell based on all her communication everywhere shows someone who might need some serious therapy.

The premise of the show require a F2 for drama, for ATFR, for tears. so SAD but so TRUE.

The show was over since Mar 14, it's been 3 months today. The glory belongs to the Bachelor and his F1.

I don't think Bevin or anyone else is trying to take anything away from Andy/Tessa. I think Bevin and most of her fans wish Tessa/Andy well and hope they do make it. I enjoyed watching Bevin on this show rather she won Andy's heart or not. I liked Bevin as a person and hope she continues speaking with her fans.

I guess Andy's ex must also need therapy. She also has several photos of him on her myspace. And that has been over for a while now. (at least I think that is an ex of Andy's)

ldcook77 · 06-14-2007, 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by stickle

Because they're too busy going on with their lives to spend time worrying about what the fans are saying?

I agree, and would add what Bevin is doing/saying to that as well. If they are so in love, I just don't see them really caring what photo is on Bevin's myspace page. I personally don't see the big deal, and apparently neither do they.

DoodleBug · 06-14-2007, 11:08 PM

Why do we always want to blame Bevin for initiating everything? Geez she was one of how many on the "set of The Bachelor?" Myspace pages can be set-up by anyone with a computer and internet connection. The information supplied is not verified by your birth certificate, photo id or finger print. If either of the two myspace pages in question belong to either Bevin and Tessa/Andy, why would they use such a public forum? Sorry I don't understand the obssession with myspace pages

06-14-2007, 09:41 PM	#961
sueb1961 FORT Fogey Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 1,336	Re: Bevin - Bachelor 10 I just came from Bevins myspace and I noticed that Andy and Tessa and the Andy Baldwin official fan site was added. I would think if they had a problem with Bevins myspace they wouldn't have joined. I also see that Mitch has some movie deal going. I don't remember any of the detail. I just kinda glanced at it.

06-14-2007, 09:51 PM	#962
ldcook77 Where I want to be... Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 1,547	Re: Bevin - Bachelor 10 sueb1961, well said! I also noticed that the A/T fansite was added as her friend. If they have such a problem, why request or approve her site as a friend???? If A/T's love is as great as Andessa fans like to believe, then who cares what Bevin says or does? As a Bevin fan, I am glad she is communicating with her fans. I am glad that she is taking whatever steps necessary to heal and move past this. While it may have only been six weeks of her life, it was no doubt a life changing part of her life. Why should she just pretend it never happened or that Andy was not part of it? Why should she not answer the questions of her fans for fear of upsetting those who have called her the likes of slut, liar, fameho, drama queen, manipulator and much worse? Personally, I hope she continues to ignore those who want to pretend her relationship with Andy never existed, and focus on the fans who want to know more about what *really* happened between the two of them.

06-14-2007, 11:08 PM	#970
DoodleBug FORT Fan Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 351	Why do we always want to blame Bevin for initiating everything? Geez she was one of how many on the "set of The Bachelor?" Myspace pages can be set-up by anyone with a computer and internet connection. The information supplied is not verified by your birth certificate, photo id or finger print. If either of the two myspace pages in question belong to either Bevin and Tessa/Andy, why would they use such a public forum? Sorry I don't understand the obssession with myspace pages Last edited by Jewelsy; 06-15-2007 at 12:37 PM.