Bevin - Bachelor 10 - Page 59

Jennie · 05-23-2007, 05:10 AM

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Originally Posted by NYGal

I found Bevin's dumping WAY more emotional and heartfelt than Tessa's proposal....

Me too....I shed some

for Bevin I felt so bad for her.

I loved watching Andy and Bevin’s relationship grow and develop from when she walked out of the limo until their last date together when Andy said “I love you Bev, I really do” and then went on to say “It took a great deal of courage for Bevin to say she loved me...it was the best moment of this entire journey”.

Bevin was so articulate in communicating her feelings to Andy. I loved the energy/intensity/effort/passion she put into their relationship from day one.

I think the real reason Andy didn’t choose Bevin was because of the baggage she had from her past. I think deep down Andy was bothered by her divorce, tattoos, and liberal views. Andy’s and his family are very idealistic, traditional, and conservative. He just didn’t see Bevin fitting in.

Bevin deserves the best. It is my hope that someday she will have the opportunity to share that energy/passion/intensity/effort with a man who will love and cherish her for who she is (past and all) and the wonderful person she has become.

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MissThing · 05-23-2007, 09:22 AM

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Originally Posted by NYGal

I found Bevin's dumping WAY more emotional and heartfelt then Tessa's proposal. I do think he was hedging his bets up until the very end. Andy wanted Bevin to tell him that it was okay and that she understood, this way he could still be "Mr. Nice Guy". I am glad she didn't, because it isn't. Actually, I wish she hadn't allowed him to comfort her.

I agree with what you say. He was definitely seeking forgiveness from her, and comfort from her, also. He was looking for one more external affirmation from her, and although I still am not a huge fan of hers, for various reasons, I was glad she had the sense not to give him any satisfaction in that regard.

pminn1608 · 05-23-2007, 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by MissThing

I agree with what you say. He was definitely seeking forgiveness from her, and comfort from her, also. He was looking for one more external affirmation from her, and although I still am not a huge fan of hers, for various reasons, I was glad she had the sense not to give him any satisfaction in that regard.

OK, first, your location Camp Quichrbichen is just to funny

. Hope I don't get hit for the comment.

JMO Andy was begging for Bevin to say something to him in forgiveness and being the lady Bevin is she showed the maturity to leave him looking like the cad he was.
At the FRC she again showed the lady she is and left him to explain himself which he did as if he was diagnosing a patient with some type of condition. Not a Andy fan anymore. Definitely a Bevin fan and wish her all the best in the future.

gardenia36 · 05-23-2007, 02:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jennie

Me too....I shed some

for Bevin I felt so bad for her.

I loved watching Andy and Bevin’s relationship grow and develop from when she walked out of the limo until their last date together when Andy said “I love you Bev, I really do” and then went on to say “It took a great deal of courage for Bevin to say she loved me...it was the best moment of this entire journey”.

Bevin was so articulate in communicating her feelings to Andy. I loved the energy/intensity/effort/passion she put into their relationship from day one.

I think the real reason Andy didn’t choose Bevin was because of the baggage she had from her past. I think deep down Andy was bothered by her divorce, tattoos, and liberal views. Andy’s and his family are very idealistic, traditional, and conservative. He just didn’t see Bevin fitting in.

Bevin deserves the best. It is my hope that someday she will have the opportunity to share that energy/passion/intensity/effort with a man who will love and cherish her for who she is (past and all) and the wonderful person she has become.

Such a nice post, Jennie! I know one day Bevin will find love with someone who embraces all of her, past, present and future.

girlsmom · 05-24-2007, 09:54 AM

The frc was filmed two months ago I hope that Bevin has been allowed to move on. It's clear that Andy and Tessa have moved waay beyond the frc. They've had two and half months of bi-weekly weekend visits, innumerable hours of phone calls, and four public days together. Their relationship has processed and their mutual feelings appear to have deepened considerably. Whatever Bevin thought about the promise of her relationship was with Andy will never be fullfilled. It's irrelevant in her future life and she needs to move on with the support of her friends. This show is a cruel show and there were lots of victims who need to put the show in perspective and move on with their personal lives, not wallow in the past. It must be a great relief to have the ATFR show over as that was the last involvement that any of the other girls should have with the show and with Andy. Bevin is with Tessa and ONLY Tessa now, that's it. If he'd wanted to pick Bevin he would have, it's over.

Bevin has acknowledged this in her classy statement on her myspace page.

BlondieGal · 05-24-2007, 10:32 AM

One word ~ Bachelorette.

If tptb let this woman slip through their fingers, then shame on them. Then again, if I were Bevin, would I trust them with my edit?

pajamasam · 05-24-2007, 11:29 AM

Blondie why would Bevin trust them farther than she could throw them? They threw her under a bus! I suppose being in the power position would be enticing. They have always managed to find some really great men when they do the casting. Even in SWMNBN's season (Jen Schefft ) , she had a couple of great guys - Ryan was a sweetheart, and also Ben. There were more than a few who were truly awesome and searching for love. But after the way they edited Bevin, I am really afraid it would scare some men off (unfortunately) and make the all important casting even more difficult. I think she'll do better in real life than in reality life.

bigedlb · 05-24-2007, 11:58 AM

"About the final outcome- Andy and Tessa are very happy and they derserve all the support in the world. It was so wonderful to watch their love story unfold even though that meant I left with a broken heart. I know the right man is out there for me so it is not the end of my journey, just another awesome experience under my belt."

So I will be nice, for now, until he misbehaves with Tessa... LOL
This is out of respect for the request of the lady who I feel was wronged in the end, but I can also choose to say nothing about him at all... That is, as I said, until he misbehaves...

I am a guy, and he did not make us guys look so good on that last episode...

On another subject - NHL - How about them Ducks!

pminn1608 · 05-24-2007, 12:14 PM

[quote=bigedlb;2417354;]"About the final outcome- Andy and Tessa are very happy and they derserve all the support in the world. It was so wonderful to watch their love story unfold even though that meant I left with a broken heart. I know the right man is out there for me so it is not the end of my journey, just another awesome experience under my belt."

So I will be nice, for now, until he misbehaves with Tessa... LOL
This is out of respect for the request of the lady who I feel was wronged in the end, but I can also choose to say nothing about him at all... That is, as I said, until he misbehaves...

I am a guy, and he did not make us guys look so good on that last episode...

On another subject - NHL - How about them Ducks!

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Thank you for standing up for Bevin, she was wronged in the end and Andy knows in his heart what he did to her.

RandalR · 05-24-2007, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by girlsmom

Bevin is with Tessa and ONLY Tessa now, that's it.

Do you know something we don't?

05-24-2007, 09:54 AM	#585
girlsmom FORT Fogey Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Michigan Posts: 4,159	Re: Bevin - Bachelor 10 The frc was filmed two months ago I hope that Bevin has been allowed to move on. It's clear that Andy and Tessa have moved waay beyond the frc. They've had two and half months of bi-weekly weekend visits, innumerable hours of phone calls, and four public days together. Their relationship has processed and their mutual feelings appear to have deepened considerably. Whatever Bevin thought about the promise of her relationship was with Andy will never be fullfilled. It's irrelevant in her future life and she needs to move on with the support of her friends. This show is a cruel show and there were lots of victims who need to put the show in perspective and move on with their personal lives, not wallow in the past. It must be a great relief to have the ATFR show over as that was the last involvement that any of the other girls should have with the show and with Andy. Bevin is with Tessa and ONLY Tessa now, that's it. If he'd wanted to pick Bevin he would have, it's over. Bevin has acknowledged this in her classy statement on her myspace page. Last edited by girlsmom; 05-24-2007 at 10:02 AM.

05-24-2007, 10:32 AM	#586
BlondieGal Fort Blondie Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Scotland Yards Posts: 5,973	Re: Bevin - Bachelor 10 One word ~ Bachelorette. If tptb let this woman slip through their fingers, then shame on them. Then again, if I were Bevin, would I trust them with my edit? __________________ The seat of knowledge is in the head, of wisdom, in the heart ~ William Hazlitt

05-24-2007, 11:29 AM	#587
pajamasam Forum Assistant Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 4,350	Re: Bevin - Bachelor 10 Blondie why would Bevin trust them farther than she could throw them? They threw her under a bus! I suppose being in the power position would be enticing. They have always managed to find some really great men when they do the casting. Even in SWMNBN's season (Jen Schefft ) , she had a couple of great guys - Ryan was a sweetheart, and also Ben. There were more than a few who were truly awesome and searching for love. But after the way they edited Bevin, I am really afraid it would scare some men off (unfortunately) and make the all important casting even more difficult. I think she'll do better in real life than in reality life.

05-24-2007, 11:58 AM	#588
bigedlb FORT Fan Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: California Posts: 263	Re: Bevin - Bachelor 10 / Per request of Ms. Bevin on her myspace "About the final outcome- Andy and Tessa are very happy and they derserve all the support in the world. It was so wonderful to watch their love story unfold even though that meant I left with a broken heart. I know the right man is out there for me so it is not the end of my journey, just another awesome experience under my belt." So I will be nice, for now, until he misbehaves with Tessa... LOL This is out of respect for the request of the lady who I feel was wronged in the end, but I can also choose to say nothing about him at all... That is, as I said, until he misbehaves... I am a guy, and he did not make us guys look so good on that last episode... On another subject - NHL - How about them Ducks!

05-24-2007, 12:14 PM	#589
pminn1608 FORT Fogey Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Maggie and Pearl's house Posts: 1,024	Re: Bevin - Bachelor 10 / Per request of Ms. Bevin on her myspace [quote=bigedlb;2417354;]"About the final outcome- Andy and Tessa are very happy and they derserve all the support in the world. It was so wonderful to watch their love story unfold even though that meant I left with a broken heart. I know the right man is out there for me so it is not the end of my journey, just another awesome experience under my belt." So I will be nice, for now, until he misbehaves with Tessa... LOL This is out of respect for the request of the lady who I feel was wronged in the end, but I can also choose to say nothing about him at all... That is, as I said, until he misbehaves... I am a guy, and he did not make us guys look so good on that last episode... On another subject - NHL - How about them Ducks! [/QUOTE Thank you for standing up for Bevin, she was wronged in the end and Andy knows in his heart what he did to her.