Bevin - Bachelor 10

[Cailg]

I think it is quite possible to be really into someone in a short period of time. It happened when I first saw my now husband the first day of class on the first day of college. That was September, 1979. We are happily married with 3 kids.

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[gardenia36]

Originally Posted by Satellitegirl

I actually liked her to start with, but she turned me off big time later on with her constant crying.

I don't mind her crying at all. Shows she has emotion. Plus, it seems like a pretty stressful situation all around; I'd probably be shedding some tears too!

[AimHigh]

Go Bevin! She's laying it all on the line. She's more mature than Tessa-who, I think has the world record for the amount of times you can use the word 'like' in a sentence! ugh
There IS electricity between Andy and Bevin, it's obvious and they admit it. I think it's sweet! Can't wait to see the final episode.

[armywifewaiting]

I'm getting frustrated with hearing people say that all Bevin and Andy have is physical attraction... They apparently have gotten to know each other, but we have not been able to see those conversations due to editing. If you don't have that physical attraction, then all you have is a friendship. As a relationship progresses, you can work thru the issues, learn more about each other, engage in stimulating conversation, etc. But, if the physical attraction isn't there to begin with, you can't work on changing whether or not you are attracted to someone... Just my opinion...

[coop2]

After watching the episode again, I got a really bad vibe from Tessa. she gave off this arrogant presence. she acted like she was better than everybody. like she was stooping down to be on this show and that she could win it if she wanted to.

Bevin is just giddy over this. At first I just thought she was super competitive, but now I am thinking that it is totally Tessa being the competitive one. She probably knows that the shy one wins and if she had to be on "this" show she was gonna play it for what it was worth. I think Bevin was being competitive for valuable time with Andy not to win. I think Tessa thinks she is better than everyone and will be on top as always. I am not rooting one way or the other, but I am starting to not like one more than the other.

bad tess vibe last nite. I felt the previews were showing her grabbing at straws to win andy now in the end.

[Jennie]

Originally Posted by armywifewaiting

I'm getting frustrated with hearing people say that all Bevin and Andy have is physical attraction...

Exactly.....Andy/Bevin are both looking for the complete package....a best friend, partner, father/mother to their children, etc.

Andy said in the last episode that their relationship is much more than just a physical attraction.....

“What is so fantastic is that I know the physical side is there….but now it is even more enjoyable because there are the other elements of Bevin to back it up…..and that makes our relationship much more special"

[Jennie]

Originally Posted by coop2

I felt the previews were showing her (Tessa) grabbing at straws to win Andy...in the end.

IMO Tessa needed to put forth as much intensity/emotion/effort as Bevin did from day one. As the final episode approaches Tessa reminds me of someone who is ...a dollar short...a day late...she missed her opportunity while Bevin capitalized on it from the beginning.

[armywifewaiting]

Originally Posted by Jennie

IMO Tessa needed to put forth as much intensity/emotion/effort as Bevin did from day one. As the final episode approaches Tessa reminds me of someone who is ...a dollar short...a day late...she missed her opportunity while Bevin capitalized on it from the beginning.

I don't think that Andy should have had to convince Tessa to stay. If she really felt like she had some kind of connection, she should have wanted to stay from the beginning. It's a two way street, not one way, dragging the other along kicking and screaming.

[Jennie]

Originally Posted by armywifewaiting

I don't think that Andy should have convinced Tessa to stay. If she really felt like she had some kind of connection, she should have wanted to stay from the beginning.

I think Tessa put herself in a situation she wasn't prepared for. Her dad said she did it for fun. She neglected to consider the emotional aspect of the experience. Everyone involved took a risk by being on the show and had be prepared for the consequences...good or bad.

Bevin said she didn't want her heart broken either but she was willing to take the risk early on unlike Tessa. She put herself out there...gave it her all...decided to let go of the outcome....with the hope she would get what she wanted out of the experience in the end.

[angelic_one2002]

Love your post, Jennie! Bevin put her heart out there to him very openly and honestly. I don't know how anyone can frown on that. I think Andy was drawn to her since the beginning, and he gave the other two time to see if there was a simialr connection, and there just wasn't.