Bevin - Bachelor 10

[MomLady]

Originally Posted by momsunshine

Why should she forget an important event in her life? I think she has every right to do what she wants. She is bound by contract and cannot talk about it, but she can express this way.

Momsunshine,

Having pictures of her experience of course is normal.

What I am trying to say, that anyone who posts a picture of themselves with another person saying that is who they are if the other person is not a part of them, makes no sense and leads to a lot of questioning.

I am only talking about the picture by her name that describes who Bevin Powers is. Not any other pictures on her myspace.

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[sueb1961]

Originally Posted by MomLady

Is it really helping Bevin, heal and move on if she is posting picutres of herself with Andy identifying herself as a part of Andy.

Having picutre of the Bachelor experience with her the girls or Andy are on them on her myspace is viewed as OK.

Many object to the picutres that she uses to identify herself with.

I think the negative reaction may also come from the fact that she is saying she is Tessa's friend, supports and wants Tessa and Andy to be happy, yet she is using pictures of Tessa's fiancee to identify herself. That is sending mixed signals as to what she wants. Does she want Tessa and Andy to be happy, or does she want them to break up because she wants Andy back.

If she wants Tessa and Andy to break up, then Bevin and is not ready to move on.

In both cases, it has nothing to do with Bevin is feeling sad about what may have been for her. She needs to deal with the saddness in a way that is least hurtful to herself and to people she claims are friends.

Bevin does not want Andy back. She said the love is gone. Why does it have to mean she wants to have him back? Not all people need to hide things away in order to move on. I give her credit to be able to do that. I believe most of the pics are for her fans anyway. Bevin went on the show for Andy. Her experience with Andy is part of the show and her fans connection with her. Bevin having pics from the show on her page or as her default pic in now way takes anything away from Tessa/Andy relationship. It shouldn't threaten them at all. It is not as if she has them on her personal myspace. It is her fan mypace about her experience on the show. The way I feel is if Andy and Tessa have a problem with it maybe they aren't as strong as some people believe.

[pminn1608]

Where on earth is there reference to Bevin wanting to break up the relationship of A/T to "get Andy back". Has Bevin made that statement? Other girl's have pix on their MySpace per post's in the FORT of the Bachelor. Bevin is now receiving
bashing that is not warranted. JMO.

[momsunshine]

Originally Posted by MomLady

Momsunshine,

Having pictures of her experience of course is normal.

What I am trying to say, that anyone who posts a picture of themselves with another person saying that is who they are if the other person is not a part of them, makes no sense and leads to a lot of questioning.

I am only talking about the picture by her name that describes who Bevin Powers is. Not any other pictures on her myspace.

An avatar doesn't define someone. That is what the small picture is, an avatar.

[sueb1961]

Originally Posted by MomLady

Momsunshine,

Having pictures of her experience of course is normal.

What I am trying to say, that anyone who posts a picture of themselves with another person saying that is who they are if the other person is not a part of them, makes no sense and leads to a lot of questioning.

I am only talking about the picture by her name that describes who Bevin Powers is. Not any other pictures on her myspace.

Your past experiences help create who you are at the moment. She does not identify herself that way in her personal myspace. Her fan myspace deals with the show and Andy. That is part of her life now. It in now way means she hasn't moved on or wants him back. Why should it bother anyone?

Not everyone uses the default pic as this is me. Bevin changes the pic all the time. She is just displaying pictures her fans enjoy. Not everyone has a myspace. You can not see the pics without being a friend. It just is showing pics of that experience is all. It has no hidden meaning other than to show her pics to her fans.

[angelic_one2002]

Originally Posted by MomLady

Is it really helping Bevin, heal and move on if she is posting picutres of herself with Andy identifying herself as a part of Andy.


Many object to the picutres that she uses to identify herself with.


If she wants Tessa and Andy to break up, then Bevin and is not ready to move on.

Everyone has their own way of healing. Andy and Tessa must not mind, or Im sure they'd (the pictures)be removed. They wouldn't have accepted if they had minded. I see this all in good friendship. Im not sure why or how this implies that she wants a breakup...?

[MomLady]

Originally Posted by sueb1961

Bevin does not want Andy back. She said the love is gone. Why does it have to mean she wants to have him back? Not all people need to hide things away in order to move on. I give her credit to be able to do that. I believe most of the pics are for her fans anyway. Bevin went on the show for Andy. Her experience with Andy is part of the show and her fans connection with her. Bevin having pics from the show on her page or as her default pic in now way takes anything away from Tessa/Andy relationship. It shouldn't threaten them at all. It is not as if she has them on her personal myspace. It is her fan mypace about her experience on the show. The way I feel is if Andy and Tessa have a problem with it maybe they aren't as strong as some people believe.

Originally Posted by momsunshine

I love Bevin and I think she should post more pictures of her and Andy. I think it would also be funny for her to have the song Never Again by Kelly Clarkson on her myspace. Why do I think this is funny? Because I don't believe in A&T and I think Bevin knows something. All in good time. I hate the negative reaction to her.

sueb, I agree with you, I do not think Bevin wants Andy back. But she does seems to be giving conflicting views (especially when posting picutres of her and Andy as a couple to identify herself). I just wrote how Bevin or others may view her actions. Not that that is what the actions are. I am only saying that I see mixed signals between what she says and what she does.

I was responding to momsunshies post, which I quoted here. The bolded parts that Bevin knows something and all in good time. Is there really anything to be cryptic about?

I do not think there is anything to see about or that Bevin knows anything.

It is so over between Andy and Bevin. I never saw anything for Andy in refrence to Bevin as his soulmate, wife and life long partner. Even if there was anything ever there, it all went out the window, when Andy made the decision that he wanted Tessa to be his soulmate, wife and life long partner.

[sueb1961]

MomLady I don't think Bevin is using those pics to discribe them as a couple. I think she is just using it to show their experience together on the show, nothing else. It is not about them as a couple, just the experience.

[Estella]

I don't think Bevin putting pictures of her and Andy on her myspace and answering her fans' questions means that she wants Andy back (in fact she says she doesn't!) or that she wants Andy and Tessa to break up. She wished them happiness and she said several times that we should be happy for them... If I were her, I wouldn't want Andy back either.

[angelic_one2002]

I agree with you, Estella..I wouldn't want him back, either..after the way he treated her.