, Countrydi thanks for giving us a man's point of view. But I want to echo, girlsmom, MsFroggy, and Arielflies, and say, don't hold your wife to a life w/o the Bachelor, it's one of the best guilty pleasures, that basically doesn't harm anyone (well, except those who take this show too personally and are depressed when the ending isn't their pick! ). But seriously, The FORT is a safe and fun place to discuss our favorite "over the top, cheesy, manipulated dating reality show, The Bachelor!! We hope you and your wife will join us this Spring for Bachelor Hawaii, The Biggest Bikini addition, (which should appease the guys 'forced' to watch this show!!