I know someone who is married to a pro football player (It's the CFL--lol) but still her life is not easy. She had 2 children and with hubby being on the road and living in the city away from all parents, she definitely did not have it easy. The baby was colic-y all the time and she thought she was going to flip out. It is not so easy.
This poor girl actually thought Oh I will have a wealthy hubby, I will have his kids, and stay home. Sounds nice, but apparently it is really hard. She sounds like a naive little girl who doesn't know how hard marriage is. A marriage without your husband around to help most of the time. But I guess when you are in the getting to know you stage, anything is possible.