Has Jesse made any believable stand at all about his goal for this is to find a wife? Why do they keep having guys posing as Bachelors who maybe want to get married down the road, but right now are just looking for a date? The whole premise of the show is that the goal is marriage. If they keep getting young playboys on here, why don't they just calling it "The Dater" or something equally appropriate? The whole idea of posing as a wife-seeker and then giving a promise ring so you can break up afterwards is really getting old.
And with ABC using a 24-year-old male (professional athlete), it's unlikely he's ready to settle down. So, either that's true (He's NOT ready to settle down), or that's false (In which case, you think he'd be definitively stating he's there's for marriage.) Since we're not being hit on the head with that marriage message, I can only assume he's there simply for dating.
Kinda making a joke of the premise of the show...