Just my opinion, but if Jake were going to choose Tenley, I don't think he'd be saying, "This is the hardest decision I'll ever have to make." If he were totally head-over-heels for her, I think that would be an easy decision because there would not be the nay-sayers and the negative opinions he'd be concerned about. Also, I don't see a guy being ready to jump in 100% when he's saying with that look on his face that the heat in the relationship was developing slowly. And the fact that he mentioned it at all indicates that it's a problem. That's just how I see it.