Bachelor 13: Body Language **Spoilers!** - Page 3

Shelley2021 · 01-25-2009, 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Hilltopmom

You may be right, navybelle. Let's not forget the GH date comes right after Molly's overnight tent date with Jason. Tent date followed by a group date watching Jason kiss all the other ladies...tough to take.

Lets take that theory one step further. Jason says he told his F1 not to watch cause she'd she him with other gals etc. So if Melissa is upset after the Molly overnight in the tent and group date with all the kissing, then it makes sense she's F1. Am I reaching here? LOL

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RealityTV Fan · 01-25-2009, 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Shelley2021

Lets take that theory one step further. Jason says he told his F1 not to watch cause she'd she him with other gals etc. So if Melissa is upset after the Molly overnight in the tent and group date with all the kissing, then it makes sense she's F1. Am I reaching here? LOL

That makes sense, but then why does she say "I'm not supposed to be crying in front of you right now"?

Dutchgirly23 · 01-25-2009, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Shelley2021

Lets take that theory one step further. Jason says he told his F1 not to watch cause she'd she him with other gals etc. So if Melissa is upset after the Molly overnight in the tent and group date with all the kissing, then it makes sense she's F1. Am I reaching here? LOL

Yes, that's what I posted somewhere too.
I think it hard for her to see all him kiss all the others girls, because she is falling for him.

ZulaMay · 01-25-2009, 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by RealityTV Fan

That makes sense, but then why does she say "I'm not supposed to be crying in front of you right now"?

I think because she feels it's kind of uncool to be crying about it. Most guys don't like that; and she did sign on for it, after all. But lucky for her he doesn't seem to mind when she cries!

Hilltopmom · 01-25-2009, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by ZulaMay

I think because she feels it's kind of uncool to be crying about it. Most guys don't like that; and she did sign on for it, after all. But lucky for her he doesn't seem to mind when she cries!

My experience has been that men are uncomfortable with a woman's tears when they feel they are being manipulated by the tears. Remember how Brad "shut down" when a certain B'ette cried? Several men on MeAnna's season looked very uncomfortable when she had her tear-fest dirung the cookout at the bunkhouse.

An honest outpouring of emotion from a woman they care deeply about produces a different response. A man wants to comfort and protect her in that situation.

Shelley2021 · 01-25-2009, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Hilltopmom

My experience has been that men are uncomfortable with a woman's tears when they feel they are being manipulated by the tears. Remember how Brad "shut down" when a certain B'ette cried? Several men on MeAnna's season looked very uncomfortable when she had her tear-fest dirung the cookout at the bunkhouse.

An honest outpouring of emotion from a woman they care deeply about produces a different response. A man wants to comfort and protect her in that situation.

And that appears to be what we are seeing when Jason pulls her into an embrace!

He doesn't shy away from her tears.

amj0715 · 01-25-2009, 09:53 PM

There is a video preview of tomorrow nights episode that shows the crying scene between Jason and Melissa. It also shows Shannon and Jason's first kiss as well as some 1:1 time between Jason and Lauren.

Not sure if I can post the link here or not ... so I won't. However, what is in this clip definitely shows those three girls differently. Shannon kind of looks desperate, Lauren looks like a spoiled brat and Melissa looks like a girl in love who is having problems seeing her "guy" kissing other girls.

nutty1 · 01-25-2009, 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by amj0715

There is a video preview of tomorrow nights episode that shows the crying scene between Jason and Melissa. It also shows Shannon and Jason's first kiss as well as some 1:1 time between Jason and Lauren.

Not sure if I can post the link here or not ... so I won't. However, what is in this clip definitely shows those three girls differently. Shannon kind of looks desperate, Lauren looks like a spoiled brat and Melissa looks like a girl in love who is having problems seeing her "guy" kissing other girls.

The link is on the media thread. Here it is:

The Bachelor: Sing for their supper

WOWSIE!!! What a scene.
The kiss with Shannon was part of the "acting". I wouldn't count it as a real kiss.

amj0715 · 01-25-2009, 10:02 PM

Since this is the body language thread, did anyone else see how Jason positioned Melissa when they sat down on the couch? She sat down and then he put his right leg behind her and essentially had her right between his legs. Now, I don't think he would do that unless he was really into her and wanted to be close to her.

Also, during his conversation with Lauren it appeared that he kept leaning further and further away from him the more she talked. I can't believe that she didn't realize that she needed to shut up just by looking at the expression on his face as she was talking. Lauren has no one but herself to blame because she buried herself with that conversation with Jason.

Poor Shannon just looked desperate.

nutty1 · 01-25-2009, 10:04 PM

Did you also notice how he was laying Melissa down with his body at the end of the video?? How's that for steamy body language!?

01-25-2009, 09:53 PM	#27
amj0715 FORT Newbie Join Date: May 2007 Location: Atlanta, GA Age: 34 Posts: 14	Re: Bachelor 13: Body Language Spoilers! There is a video preview of tomorrow nights episode that shows the crying scene between Jason and Melissa. It also shows Shannon and Jason's first kiss as well as some 1:1 time between Jason and Lauren. Not sure if I can post the link here or not ... so I won't. However, what is in this clip definitely shows those three girls differently. Shannon kind of looks desperate, Lauren looks like a spoiled brat and Melissa looks like a girl in love who is having problems seeing her "guy" kissing other girls.

01-25-2009, 10:02 PM	#29
amj0715 FORT Newbie Join Date: May 2007 Location: Atlanta, GA Age: 34 Posts: 14	Re: Bachelor 13: Body Language Spoilers! Since this is the body language thread, did anyone else see how Jason positioned Melissa when they sat down on the couch? She sat down and then he put his right leg behind her and essentially had her right between his legs. Now, I don't think he would do that unless he was really into her and wanted to be close to her. Also, during his conversation with Lauren it appeared that he kept leaning further and further away from him the more she talked. I can't believe that she didn't realize that she needed to shut up just by looking at the expression on his face as she was talking. Lauren has no one but herself to blame because she buried herself with that conversation with Jason. Poor Shannon just looked desperate.

01-25-2009, 10:04 PM	#30
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