What's up with that edit??!!

[Capegal]

Originally Posted by kindaobsessed

I agree I think that is why alot of these couples did not last. For example Tessa and Andy he had to work so hard at getting her once he got her he had no more energy.

OO I don't think that was the case at all - They initially had a great attraction - but once real life hit - that is when the problems to have started - and Tessa seemed to be the one who tanked that relationship - Andy was a one of my favorite bach's tho - that was a crazy season for sure

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[kindaobsessed]

I agree with you also with Andy and Tessa -- He always had to do the chasing and she was always running, that cannot be a healthy relationship

[Capegal]

I guess then that Jason chases Melissa til she catches him - or vice versa

[nennie]

Originally Posted by Capegal

OO I don't think that was the case at all - They initially had a great attraction - but once real life hit - that is when the problems to have started - and Tessa seemed to be the one who tanked that relationship - Andy was a one of my favorite bach's tho - that was a crazy season for sure

Do you think it will be any different with this couple. When the rubber meets the road they usually find out they really have nothing in common and we have seen that more times than not with this show. Sorry but I really don't hold out much hope for this one either.

[Capegal]

Originally Posted by nennie

Do you think it will be any different with this couple. When the rubber meets the road they usually find out they really have nothing in common and we have seen that more times than not with this show. Sorry but I really don't hold out much hope for this one either.

To quote someone - There is ALWAYS HOPE that this season could/would have a good outcome in the long haul........

[Hilltopmom]

Originally Posted by Capegal

Maybe his F1 just IS tho - doesn't have to work hard at it - because the attraction IS so mutual - those types of relationships don't need hard work to attract and keep one's attention.

Exactly, Capegal. Melissa hasn't pushed herself on him in any way. She has let him know she is interested in him, but allows him to take the lead. She allows Jason to do the wooing, if you will.

We know she is a capable and confident woman in the real world. You can't beat out 600+ women for a spot on the DCC, perform in front of thousands and be heavily involved in the Cowboys many charitable endeavors and be anything less than confident. It takes good people skills and a level of maturity to get along with a large group of beautiful, talented women. It's unfortunate that a small percentage of people want to denigrate women that dance/cheer. Go Melissa!

[coastalbc]

Originally Posted by Capegal

To quote someone - There is ALWAYS HOPE that this season could/would have a good outcome in the long haul........

Well, I guess we will see. I just don't think that this one has much hope either with Melissa..... I don't know if she will be able to handle the long haul as I had mentioned before. She does seem to show her lack of being mature in the actions that she has or with the faces that she shows. I don't know too many mature people that do the pouty face all the time.

[Capegal]

Originally Posted by Hilltopmom

Exactly, Capegal. Melissa hasn't pushed herself on him in any way. She has let him know she is interested in him, but allows him to take the lead. She allows Jason to do the wooing, if you will.

We know she is a capable and confident woman in the real world. You can't beat out 600+ women for a spot on the DCC, perform in front of thousands and be heavily involved in the Cowboys many charitable endeavors and be anything less than confident. It takes good people skills and a level of maturity to get along with a large group of beautiful, talented women. It's unfortunate that a small percentage of people want to denigrate women that dance/cheer. Go Melissa!

I 1000% agree with the bolded part - geeee - the one successful marriage on the bach'ette just happened to be one of those as well - I wonder how and why that is considered to be sooo different. These gals are people first and foremost - from many walks of life - none any better than the next - tho some think they are ROFL.

[kindaobsessed]

Originally Posted by coastalbc

Well, I guess we will see. I just don't think that this one has much hope either with Melissa..... I don't know if she will be able to handle the long haul as I had mentioned before. She does seem to show her lack of being mature in the actions that she has or with the faces that she shows. I don't know too many mature people that do the pouty face all the time.

You are right people see what they want to see, because most screencaps and or the show Melissa is always smiling and laughing.
I think Melissa was happier than Jillian when Jillian recieved rose at the "bust" date

[coastalbc]

Originally Posted by kindaobsessed

You are right people see what they want to see, because most screencaps and or the show Melissa is always smiling and laughing.
I think Melissa was happier than Jillian when Jillian recieved rose at the "bust" date

I thought that was more of a look of disbelief as she later illuded to the fact that it surprised her that she got another rose on the group date. Any which way you look at it, I think that Jillian and Melissa both are generally the happy smiling kind of people.