What's up with that edit??!!

[KashatheDiva]

Originally Posted by luvlady345

Come on now that is what he is telling us, that he said to her but dontcha think he is saying just a little bit more to her.........Every single year this happen an I am left shaking my head that they say it every single year...........

I can't get into someone else's head to try to figure out what he might have meant when he said something else.
I know when I say something, I mean what I say and not some secret, hidden agenda.
I can't recall ever hearing a bachelor or bachelorette advising the F1 not to watch. In fact, usually the couple will say they watch together so they can process it together. That makes sense to me, if there are issues--work them out. Don't bury them in the sand.
I'm not saying there are issues. I am just so curious why he would advise her not to watch. Is she too sensitive to deal with it? What is the reasoning?

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[grneyedgirl]

Originally Posted by sweetpea

You know, I would (and did) feel that way about Mr. Sweetpea after we'd gotten to know each other, weathered lots of ups and downs, and fallen in love. But in a situation like this...all before the F1 was just a couple of days ago, not years ago. I don't think I would be quite so understanding of his supposed indecision the morning he proposed to me.

I agree. He may be saying that he was in love with the F2 to spare her feelings. But he is doing so at the expense of his fiance!

[Shelley2021]

Originally Posted by atem

You don't believe all their going to do is kiss and go to sleep do you?

I'm not saying they had sex, but I believe there was more than just kissing.

That would be a deal breaker for me if that was my fiance. He's proposing to me not long after taking Moaning Molly for a tent adventure.

[luvlady345]

Originally Posted by Cornfritter

JMO, it sounded like she was moaning from being kisssed by Jason. I hope that is not the case it's too early for Jason to be carrying on like that. The other girls will definitely feel alittle insecure.

I remember Tina Fab on the Andrew season, where she was supposedly moaning on the fantasy date Andrew and Tina both said that nothing happen on their date and that the moaning with edit in......

[Cornfritter]

Originally Posted by atem

You don't believe all their going to do is kiss and go to sleep do you?

I'm not saying they had sex, but I believe there was more than just kissing.

Wow, this was their first 1 on 1 date I hope the moans were edited in.

[northernviewer]

Originally Posted by Shelley2021

That would be a deal breaker for me if that was my fiance. He's proposing to me not long after taking Moaning Molly for a tent adventure.

This is not "real life" dating though. It's not like he's cheating on anybody. He's going through a fast-tracked process of elimination. If a girl doesn't want to get engaged to a guy that's kissed 5-10 girls in a few weeks ..... don't go on the Bachelor....it's that easy

[sweetpea]

Originally Posted by Cornfritter

Wow, this was their first 1 on 1 date I hope the moans were edited in.

Nothing would surprise me on this show anymore. Not the editing in of moans, or the fact that Mr. Perfect could, possibly, be as much a horndog as the rest of the guys who have done this show. Not saying he is, but it wouldn't surprise me.

And I agree...him telling the F1 not to watch is puzzling. Either he's trying to avoid having to explain some less-than-desirable behaviour or else his F1 is too fragile and insecure to handle it. It seems very strange to me.

[luvlady345]

Originally Posted by sweetpea

You know, I would (and did) feel that way about Mr. Sweetpea after we'd gotten to know each other, weathered lots of ups and downs, and fallen in love. But in a situation like this...all before the F1 was just a couple of days ago, not years ago. I don't think I would be quite so understanding of his supposed indecision the morning he proposed to me.

The thing is this is a dating show, where the premise is there is/was more than one horse in the race so to speak....OMG, if Jason didn't kiss anyone or profess to have feeling for anyone but his F1 why have the bachelor show? It wouldn't be one if that was the case...I am just not buying it, every single year we have all boards discussing this same situation.........

[northernviewer]

Originally Posted by sweetpea

Nothing would surprise me on this show anymore. Not the editing in of moans, or the fact that Mr. Perfect could, possibly, be as much a horndog as the rest of the guys who have done this show. Not saying he is, but it wouldn't surprise me.

And I agree...him telling the F1 not to watch is puzzling. Either he's trying to avoid having to explain some less-than-desirable behaviour or else his F1 is too fragile and insecure to handle it. It seems very strange to me.

If I was the Bach - I wouldn't want my F1 to watch either. Even though he was going through a process and isn't "cheating" - it's still got to be embarrassing for them all to watch. I know I wouldn't want my husband to have watched footage of me with an ex-boyfriend before we met - even though it wouldn't be cheating on him, I'd still wouldn't want him to feel uncomfortable.

Jason just wants to spare his F1's feelings - nothing wrong with that.

[northernviewer]

Originally Posted by luvlady345

The thing is this is a dating show, where the premise is there is/was more than one horse in the race so to speak....OMG, if Jason didn't kiss anyone or profess to have feeling for anyone but his F1 why have the bachelor show? It wouldn't be one if that was the case...I am just not buying it, every single year we have all boards discussing this same situation.........

I agree - the whole premise of the show is multiple dates and kissing etc. why is everybody so so shocked when it happens?