What's up with that edit??!!

[bamarocks]

Originally Posted by ducky2

That's what I was wondering too - but the echo sound had me think it was indoors. She also seems surprised that he's "shocked".

The only other thing that I thought about was Jason and Melissa's conversation about her breast reduction...but we didn't see that as part of it, and I'm not sure it would have fit in there anyway.

I should have said "hear" that part of it...sorry if I'm not making sense.

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[FARAWAYFAN25]

Originally Posted by atem

I think Jason wouldn't let himself get more involved, because it doesn't look like she is going to open up enough to show how much she's invested.

(just to start...I'm not really a fan of any of the girls since we sorta know Melissa is the F1)

I do think that Jillian opens up to him. If she is comfrotable enough to tell him about her Mom's depression, that's a big deal. That's not something she goes around telling everyone (or at least that's how they are editing it...since it's a big secret...guess it's not any more)

I think Jillian is getting a mixed edit. As several of you point out, the insecurity and the adventure mix that Tessa got, but the Secret is definatly more to Bevins edit.

If Jason lets her go because she doesn't open-up enough, I think it will be a line for the show. Allowing someone into your personal life like that is huge. She could have easily done the HTD and not mentioned her mother's depression.

[atem]

Originally Posted by FARAWAYFAN25

(just to start...I'm not really a fan of any of the girls since we sorta know Melissa is the F1)

I do think that Jillian opens up to him. If she is comfrotable enough to tell him about her Mom's depression, that's a big deal. That's not something she goes around telling everyone (or at least that's how they are editing it...since it's a big secret...guess it's not any more)

I think Jillian is getting a mixed edit. As several of you point out, the insecurity and the adventure mix that Tessa got, but the Secret is definatly more to Bevins edit.

If Jason lets her go because she doesn't open-up enough, I think it will be a line for the show. Allowing someone into your personal life like that is huge. She could have easily done the HTD and not mentioned her mother's depression.

Yeah, that's true. She is opening up a lot!

[atem]

Originally Posted by ducky2

That's what I was wondering too - but the echo sound had me think it was indoors. She also seems surprised that he's "shocked".

That's a good point. I dobut that she would ask why to that. Mmmm...

[Bloomers]

Originally Posted by cantstopwatchin

Yes, but this was the "doubt" that was also created for Tessa. It was the only doubt in her storyline. And we saw Tessa come out and say that she came on the show for the adventure so I can't see why it's bad for Jill to have admitted this whereas it wasn't for Tessa.

In the end, it all comes down to who the guy likes the best. Obviously Andy chose Tessa b/c he Looooved her (as opposed to just loving Bevin). So Jason obviously doesn't feel as strongly for Jill.

I personally thought then and in retrospect I still think Andy would have been better off with Bevin. She at least really cared for him, but that is neither here nor there.

However, when I think of Bevin, I am rather 'amazed.' There is no other contestant in Bachelor/ette history whose character embodies so many different edits. As an F2 she was competitive ( won that tricycle race and broke her ankle trying to win that exercise contest), confrontational ( in the sense that the other women in the house didn't like her), whiney, clingy, insecure, sexy, physical, had a secret, and yet the she was the first bachelorette in the franchise for the Bachelor to tell he loved her ( and not once but twice at that) yet still get rejected and then carry it off with dignity and aplomb.

[richmondrose]

Originally Posted by cantstopwatchin

As sure as that's what I was told by a Roman Catholic priest after I married my Jewish husband.

As a Catholic you and your (catholic / non-catholic) fiancee can marry 1000s of times as long as it is not "inside the Church". Once that happens to either one of you, it is no longer possible unless an annulment has been granted and that can take a long long time. Melissa and her family would also be facing this dilema since Greek Orthodox essentially follows the same tenents of the Catholic faith.

[Bloomers]

Originally Posted by richmondrose

As a Catholic you and your fiancee can marry 1000s of times as long as it was "not inside the Church". Once that happens to either one of you, it is no longer possible unless an annulment has been granted and that can take a long long time.

I think as somebody up aways pointed out, though, that for our purposes it might not be how Molly feels, but how her conservative parents feel since she has stated that she will not get involved again with a man who does not have their approval.

Now if Molly was the self-avowed "blacksheep", then we would be possibly entertaining all of these outside of the church ideas.

[mommadeb]

Originally Posted by Bloomers

I don't know if that would be consistent with both the editing and with what he has been saying about being in love with 2 women. However, sometimes there are hints in the hometowns - some big and some small - that point to why somebody ends up getting cut, even at F2. Sometimes, the hint isn't even accurate, but it helps us to at least subconsciously have some reason to hold onto.
I am thinking of Moana (F2)'s Ht date when her father and Travis were at such odds. That, of course, was not the reason why Travis gave Moana for rejecting her at the FRC. Also, the "hook" in the eppie description for Bevin's HT was that she had "a secret" - she had been divorced. That isn't why he didn't choose her, but after that slightly negative idea that she had been withholding something important from him had been implanted in our minds, we were supposed to feel a little more charitable about him letting her go.

Therefore, I will be watching Molly's Hometown date very carefully to see if there is anything that connects at all especially with the "I won't be with any man my parents don't approve". I will also be watching to see in what way Molly's family differs from Jason's and how that might affect the successful assimilation of Molly into Jason's family.

I wanted to comment on the bolded part. It may be true that Jason fell in love with 2 women, but could it be that both women did not fall in love with him?? It is possible that he did but they (i.e. Molly) did not and on top of her family not supporting her.

I think maybe that could happen, and therefore, as previously posted, the anguished scene on the balcony because now he fears the Mel may turn him down as well.

Any thoughts?

[Bloomers]

Originally Posted by mommadeb

I wanted to comment on the bolded part. It may be true that Jason fell in love with 2 women, but could it be that both women did not fall in love with him?? It is possible that he did but they (i.e. Molly) did not and on top of her family not supporting her.

I think maybe that could happen, and therefore, as previously posted, the anguished scene on the balcony because now he fears the Mel may turn him down as well.

Any thoughts?

Here is what I am thinking....because of the male ego, even if he did fall deeply in love with the 2nd woman, if she did not return that affection, I don't think he would in retrospect be publicly telling the world. I think he would just tout the love for the one who returned his love.

Then again, maybe he doesn't have that surplus of male pride......

[emusha]

hmmm all this "conservative catholic" and jason being divorcee + jewish stuff sounds a bit off considering molly knew what she was getting into to begin with, that she might end up as the one getting the proposal...it just doesn't sound right IMHO