B13 Thoughts and Comments

[nutty1]

Am I the only one who thinks PDL looks more like Molly, but bungee looks like a perfect match for Sharon?? And I am unsure of umbrella girl.

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[Living]

Originally Posted by Bloomers

This passage is from a news article ( at Dreamers') entitled, "Bachelor looks for a wife - and a mother" by Rick Bentley - McClatchy Newspapers


"What I also learned through that experience is that the person I need to be with has to have been through some kind of their own experience in life to know that they're ready for a family. Because I've already got a family," Mesnick says. "So I was looking for somebody that not only had all the qualities that Deanna had but also I learned that they had to have been through dating in a long-term relationship. Or experience with kids. Or they've got that party scene out of their system.

"I love to do those type of things. But half the time I'm Dad at home with Ty."


This re-iterates and re-words several things he has already said. One thing he said in another article was that he and his ex spent most of the time trying to help her figure out her interests in life. ( He then worded it in such a way that indicated DeAnna did not know either).
He wanted someone who knew that about herself already this time.

What I am getting from everything he is saying is that he does not want somebody who wants to be in the entertainment/media type fields or who is looking for that type of self-development.

I never got the idea that he is against career women - only that based on his experience ( wife ran off and is also involved in creative entertainment type pursuits and Bachelorette rejected him in order to pursue entertainment avenues), he doesn't want someone else who wants that same kind of thing in life. "She knows herself. She is ready to settle down, etc."

If Melissa is F1, then they discussed her prior desires to be in the entertainment/media fields, and I would have to believe that he came to the understanding that is no longer what she desires.

If she is not F1, then maybe he found out that she does still desire to be in those fields somewhere down the road when/if the opportunity avails itself. She is perky and attractive. If she indeed does have a degree in communication, then such a job in the media is not out of the question.

I feel it is easier for someone who has never been in the spotlight to show to Jason they want to settle down that for others who have been in the spotlight. How do we know you have it out of your system. Deanna did her show all the time professing how she wants to settle down and at the last minute till now she has proved the opposite.

2. We still do not have any proof of Melissa being F3. All we have are 2 very blurred sc which some insist are Melissa though they do not show anyone's face. On the other hand we have clearer sc of pool girl and blanket girl. And...we do not recognize them.

3. We have no proof of Melissa's leaving does not make her F1.

[stilettos]

Originally Posted by Living

I feel it is easier for someone who has never been in the spotlight to show to Jason they want to settle down that for others who have been in the spotlight. How do we know you have it out of your system. Deanna did her show all the time professing how she wants to settle down and at the last minute till now she has proved the opposite.

2. We still do not have any proof of Melissa being F3. All we have are 2 very blurred sc which some insist are Melissa though they do not show anyone's face. On the other hand we have clearer sc of pool girl and blanket girl. And...we do not recognize them.

3. We have no proof of Melissa's leaving does not make her F1.

Melissa could get a job in local communications in Seattle, or radio work too. Who's to say that she cannot use her communications degree and fulfill herself AND be a fulltime wife and Mother. I do know some women who have been able to convince their husband and children that they are secure and that she won't run off to Hollywood while still working in media related fields. Perhaps what Jason wants to know is that hs F1's priority will be their relationship and Ty and future children. JMO

[JMFan]

On a slightly different note, how many girls do you think get to spend any significant time with Ty ? Only the F1 & F2, or 3 and 4 also ? He stated he wanted to make sure that his pick meshed well with Ty so I was wondering. What are your opinions ?

[atem]

Originally Posted by JMFan

On a slightly different note, how many girls do you think get to spend any significant time with Ty ? Only the F1 & F2, or 3 and 4 also ? He stated he wanted to make sure that his pick meshed well with Ty so I was wondering. What are your opinions ?

I don't think a ton of time. He said that he wouldn't let himself fall for someone that didn't get along with Ty.

[RealityTV Fan]

Originally Posted by atem

I don't think a ton of time. He said that he wouldn't let himself fall for someone that didn't get along with Ty.

That's true. He has said before that he won't fall in love with someone that didn't get along with his son.

[KashatheDiva]

Weird thoughts on the sc with Ms Purple:

Jason is so lucky I am not Ms Purple and this is not a sc of him giving me a F2 walk of rejection to the limo...I would be smacking him upside the head. Forget the fact about holding his slimey hand and walking with a "distance" between the 2 of us. I'd be cussing him up a blue streak--cameras be d*mned.
That's what keeps coming back to me, as we discuss why this could not be F1. I am not saying this sc is of the F1. What I am saying is if this was me, and I was F2--beware. Fleiss would be photoshopping me with horns and a tail!

[atem]

Originally Posted by KashatheDiva

Weird thoughts on the sc with Ms Purple:

Jason is so lucky I am not Ms Purple and this is not a sc of him giving me a F2 walk of rejection to the limo...I would be smacking him upside the head. Forget the fact about holding his slimey hand and walking with a "distance" between the 2 of us. I'd be cussing him up a blue streak--cameras be d*mned.
That's what keeps coming back to me, as we discuss why this could not be F1. I am not saying this sc is of the F1. What I am saying is if this was me, and I was F2--beware. Fleiss would be photoshopping me with horns and a tail!

I would too, but with Sharon...I could see her not acting that way. Now Molly, IDK. I'm just hoping Molly isn't F1, if that's not the F2 reject lady.

[Mike'sgirl]

Originally Posted by nutty1

Am I the only one who thinks PDL looks more like Molly, but bungee looks like a perfect match for Sharon?? And I am unsure of umbrella girl.

No, you are not alone - which is why it is so hard to reconcile whether it is one person or both involved in that F3.

ETA: Kasha - that is one reason why I lean toward it being Sharon rather then Molly. I can see Sharon being stunned and not responding as one would normally want to.... think F3 ......D****$bag

[Bloomers]

Originally Posted by KashatheDiva

Weird thoughts on the sc with Ms Purple:

Jason is so lucky I am not Ms Purple and this is not a sc of him giving me a F2 walk of rejection to the limo...I would be smacking him upside the head. Forget the fact about holding his slimey hand and walking with a "distance" between the 2 of us. I'd be cussing him up a blue streak--cameras be d*mned.
That's what keeps coming back to me, as we discuss why this could not be F1. I am not saying this sc is of the F1. What I am saying is if this was me, and I was F2--beware. Fleiss would be photoshopping me with horns and a tail!

If you remember, DeAnna was in such an emotional state she didn't walk arm in arm out to the limo with Graham. She barely walked to the limo at all !

If I were the rejected F2, and I felt thoroughly misled, I seriously think I probably would NOT hold his hand or take his arm going back because in my mind holding my hand or my arm (showing me that kind of affection) would be like he had done during our dates, and so therefore the whole idea of holding my hand and showing me what looks like the same kind of affection would be hypocritical.