Bachelor 13 - Media **Spoilers** - Page 515

just logic · 03-04-2009, 05:03 PM

I didn't like the way the show ended, thought it was completely heartless and planned. I will watch the Bachelorette however hoping Jillian can keep things sane. That said I won't be on here until the Bachelorette starts posting because the more we talk about this the more we keep Jason in the limelight - I just want him gone.

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betteD08 · 03-04-2009, 05:14 PM

Brett Michael's had his POV in TV Guide ha ha from the mouths of pigs

Rock of Love's Bret Michaels Gives Bachelor Advice - Today's News: Our Take | TVGuide.com

cupcakes · 03-04-2009, 05:24 PM

Less than 48 hours after having her engagement -- and her heart -- broken on national TV by Jason Mesnick, "The Bachelor"'s Melissa Rycroft speaks out about the experience.

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She writes: "I want to thank everyone who has been so supportive throughout this process. This has been such an overwhelming experience, and I really do appreciate the support system behind me. This was definitely one of those experiences that changes your life, and makes you so much more aware of who you are and what you want out of life. Strange as it may sound, I am doing really well.

"I'm back in Dallas, pursuing the teaching thing, and attempting to get my life back to normal (if it was ever really normal to begin with). I still have my same life mottoes: Live life with no regrets, and keep smiling no matter what happens.

"I'm in such a good place in my life right now, and I really couldn't be happier. I don't regret anything that happened over the past few months; because I know I wouldn't be where I am today had none of it happened. I have, however, decided to move on from my reality television days, and get some sense of normalcy back to my life. As wonderful of an experience as 'The Bachelorette' would be, I think it's time for me to move on from my television days, and see what my future holds back in Dallas. I have no doubt it will be an amazing experience for whoever assumes the role, and I wish them the best of luck!"

partypunch · 03-04-2009, 05:24 PM

Here is Mel's statement not sure if it's been posted yet

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After she agreed to work things out, obviously being "The Bachelorette" was off the table. Next to tap: The scorned Melissa. Fleiss knew a ratings coup when he saw one. But Melissa, still obviously upset about what transpired, refused. (Third-place finisher Jillian Harris will be the next "Bachelorette," which premieres in May.)

The 25-year-old former Dallas Cowboys cheerleader also refused to be participate in most media interviews, though she will appear on Thursday's "Ellen," which airs locally at 4 p.m. on WOOD-TV (Channel 8).

"At some point we'll invite Melissa to be part of an update package," Fleiss said. "We hope she gets over this, and that she finds the right guy. She's a terrific girl, and I'd say the most popular girl in the country right now."

Here is a statement from Melissa Rycroft:

"Although I could not be here, I want to thank everyone who has been so supportive throughout this process. This has been such an overwhelming experience, and I really do appreciate the support system behind me.

"This was definitely one of those experiences that changes your life, and makes you so much more aware of who you are and what you want out of life.Strange as it may sound, I am doing really well. I'm back in Dallas,pursuing the teaching thing, and attempting to get my life back to normal(if it was every really normal to begin with).

"I still have my same life mottos: Live life with no regrets, and keep smiling no matter what happens.I'm in such a good place in my life right now, and I really couldn't be happier. I don't regret anything that happened over the past few months;because I know I wouldn't be where I am today had none of it happened.

"I have, however, decided to move on from my reality television days, and get some sense of normalcy back to my life. As wonderful of an experience as The Bachelorette would be, I think it's time for me to move on from my television days, and see what my future holds back in Dallas.

"I have no doubt it will be an amazing experience for whoever assumes the role, and I wish them the best of luck! "

'Bachelor' producer Mike Fleiss was in talks to make Molly next 'Bachelorette,' defends Jason's switch, denies ABC influences outcome - Grand Rapids Movies, Music, Events and Entertainment – MLive.com

Bananaloaf · 03-04-2009, 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by xocai

What exactly is it that you agree with? Yes, they both felt heartache and yes, both were dumped on tv. IMO however, that is where the similarities end.

Molly experienced the heartache of rejection. When Jason dumped Molly it was in the context of having a non-exclusive relationship.

Melissa experienced the heartache of betrayal (and rejection). When Jason dumped Melissa it was in the context of having an exclusive relationship--or at least what was supposed to be exclusive. If Jason couldn't get Molly out of his mind, then he never really had an emotionally exclusive relationship with Melissa to begin with; hence the heartache of betrayal and feeling cheated on.

Furthermore, when Jason dumped Molly it was in the context of standard filming; when he dumped Melissa it was in the context of exploiting what was transpiring in post-production.

There may be similarites, but it's like comparing apples to oranges, imo.

I agree with the exact statement that I quoted when I said I agreed. It was:

Fleiss: Believe me, that heartache that Molly experienced the first time was probably not that much different than the heartache that Melissa experienced in the ATFR. He was dumping the both of them on camera.[/i]

I see things different then you do. Plain and simple. Nothing wrong with that.

Bet2Win · 03-04-2009, 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by SaffronSunrise

Well. Jason just told a story. Melissa was wearing the ring when she first stepped out on the stage. Casualfan brought the SC over.

Can someone please send that SC to Ellen so if he tries to say this on her show, she'll have the evidence to show the audience what the truth is. Whether she uses it or not, it would be nice for her to at least have it.

partypunch · 03-04-2009, 05:32 PM

Oops cupcakes we must have posted at the same time.

one71721 · 03-04-2009, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by betteD08

Brett Michael's had his POV in TV Guide ha ha from the mouths of pigs

Rock of Love's Bret Michaels Gives Bachelor Advice - Today's News: Our Take | TVGuide.com

Yeah when a total rock star man-h* schools you on break up etiquette you know you are a total loser.

atem · 03-04-2009, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Bet2Win

Can someone please send that SC to Ellen so if he tries to say this on her show, she'll have the evidence to show the audience what the truth is. Whether she uses it or not, it would be nice for her to at least have it.

I think it's too late for Ellen.

Maybe you should try Bonnie Hunt. Jason is going on her show Monday and she's taking questions to possibly ask Jason.

cfck2222 · 03-04-2009, 05:48 PM

In the new print edition of People Jason does admit to contacting Molly once after NZ and before ATFR1 but he passes it off as just wanting to make sure she was OK kind of things. I don't remember the exact wording and I don't have the magazine in front of me right now. But it's the new People with Jason and Molly on the cover.

03-04-2009, 05:03 PM	#5141
just logic FORT Fogey Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Canada Posts: 1,864	Re: Bachelor 13 - Media Spoilers I didn't like the way the show ended, thought it was completely heartless and planned. I will watch the Bachelorette however hoping Jillian can keep things sane. That said I won't be on here until the Bachelorette starts posting because the more we talk about this the more we keep Jason in the limelight - I just want him gone.

03-04-2009, 05:14 PM	#5142
betteD08 FORT Regular Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 131	Re: Bachelor 13 - Media Spoilers Brett Michael's had his POV in TV Guide ha ha from the mouths of pigs Rock of Love's Bret Michaels Gives Bachelor Advice - Today's News: Our Take \| TVGuide.com __________________ "The very least you can do in your life is to figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do is live inside that hope.”

03-04-2009, 05:32 PM	#5147
partypunch FORT Fan Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 383	Re: Bachelor 13 - Media Spoilers Oops cupcakes we must have posted at the same time.

03-04-2009, 05:48 PM	#5150
cfck2222 FORT Fan Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 330	Re: Bachelor 13 - Media Spoilers In the new print edition of People Jason does admit to contacting Molly once after NZ and before ATFR1 but he passes it off as just wanting to make sure she was OK kind of things. I don't remember the exact wording and I don't have the magazine in front of me right now. But it's the new People with Jason and Molly on the cover.