Bachelor 13 - Media **Spoilers**

[CaFan]

I'm new to watching the Bachelor series, and have questions about Molly. If Molly is one of the F2, why haven't we seen more favorable edits of her thus far? It seems, imo, that Jason has had more of a connection early on with Jillian. And I also think Melissa is the F1. Didn't Jason say somewhere in the beginning that he was looking for someone with a kind heart?

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[CaFan]

Originally Posted by Capegal

What does she have to breath for?!? just hold her breath and smooch away

OK, I'm favoring Melissa, and it seems to me that Jason has been "leaning into her" from day 1.

[cupcakes]

Originally Posted by CaFan

Didn't Jason say somewhere in the beginning that he was looking for someone with a kind heart?

CaFan! Yes, I recall him mentioning that.

[TNmomof4]

Originally Posted by Dutchgirly23

I got the feeling he was not only talking about this day. I think what he meant to tell her was that when he is kissing the other girls he is acting, following the script of TPTB, but when he is kissing her, it is real.......

I think it's possible that he is indeed trying to get a message to her that, at least some of his kisses are "acting". Just the way he said it sounds like he may be trying to give a deeper meaning. Melissa obiviously knew the kisses on the date were part of the GH scene so he could have just worded differently if he was just referring to that date. We all know that parts of this show are scripted by the producers. Remember Meredith's comment to Mathew in trying to explain her "I want a ring...." statement? She said "you know the show....." which to me sounded much like 'you know the script..." Who knows?!? It's nice to think that he was trying to send her a message!!

[jlccaz]

Originally Posted by CaFan

I'm new to watching the Bachelor series, and have questions about Molly. If Molly is one of the F2, why haven't we seen more favorable edits of her thus far? It seems, imo, that Jason has had more of a connection early on with Jillian. And I also think Melissa is the F1. Didn't Jason say somewhere in the beginning that he was looking for someone with a kind heart?

She's being portrayed as a sleeper candidate to win Jason. Her edit will "pop" before she's F2. Again, at this point in the episodes, the emotional roller coaster has barely left the platform. Because everyone knows who F1 is, there is a lot of projection and filling in the blanks. By the end, the presentation of what happened during the 6 weeks of filming will have developed Molly's character as well, to the point where the non-spoiled viewer will have doubt as to Jason's choice.

[gotcharunnin1]

I took it as the scripts for the GH shoot had kisses in them and Melissa's didnt but he kissed her anyways.....

that's why she said "it wasnt in the script"

[northernviewer]

Originally Posted by RealityTV Fan

I think she means that he was acting while kissing the other girls on the GH date, but with Melissa it was real.

Well he probably kissed them all during a GH scene and I don't have a hard time believing that he was acting with Shannon, Megan, Lauren and Stephanie - but I don't think he's acting with his final 4 ladies.

[Cerese]

I wish Melissa would not keep emphasizing that she is so unlucky in love. hasn't dated in 3 years, hasn't been kissed in so long, unlucky in love. All this may be true although it's hard to believe but it makes her sound as if she has low self esteem. She apparently just had not met the right one - but I would like to see her a little more self confident - especially with her sweet personality and great looks !

[northernviewer]

Originally Posted by Cerese

I wish Melissa would not keep emphasizing that she is so unlucky in love. hasn't dated in 3 years, hasn't been kissed in so long, unlucky in love. All this may be true although it's hard to believe but it makes her sound as if she has low self esteem. She apparently just had not met the right one - but I would like to see her a little more self confident - especially with her sweet personality and great looks !

It also makes her sound desperate and that any guy would do at this point.

[Bloomers]

Originally Posted by Hilltopmom

That's hilarious! Why would Melissa worry about Jillian getting a rose on a group date? When questioned about the group date roses, he says that it is no big deal and that the guy getting all the group date roses went home. I personally feel that Jillian has worked very hard for those roses and she deserves them. Melissa even laughed off Natalie getting to wear a million dollars worth of diamonds. She said she is only interested in one diamond .

It takes a focused, mature lady to keep her eye on what she wants to achieve and to disregard the unimportant.

One thing I think that we do have to remember, though, is that Jason made that remark about the group roses to Erica. While we heard it and can extrapolate meaning from it, Melissa did not.