Jillian **Spoilers**

[HotMomma]

Originally Posted by KareyR2

Perhaps Jillian has had the type of life experience that Jason has been talking about in interviews that he needed his F1 to have experienced. It certainly seems like thus far, what sounds like Jillian perhaps endured in her childhood, supersedes Mel's 7 year relationship, and I don't think Molly has spoken of any type of life experience like this. I don't know...perhaps Mel and Molly have experienced more than we are hearing about which would equate to what Jay said he needed in his F1 from his interviews posting taping. Just tossing that out there, as Jillian once again seems to have everything that Jay has stated repeatedly he needed, (and these are not verbatim )....someone able to light up a room, someone that everyone gravitates towards, someone adventuresome and fun, someone with a love for children (her stated desire to meet Ty would equate to this), someone who has a spark of life/light, someone who knows who they are and what they want, someone who has some sort of life experience.......Jilly fits the bill on them all. Too bad she is gone at F3....Jay missed out on a true gem, and Jillian remains my favourite Bachelorette ever, in any season. Thanks
Karey

I do agree with you on this..I think we will see even more come this comming week.

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[angelic_one2002]

I'm hoping for more to come between these two, also. She almost reminds me of the Tessa edit...the way Jason is trying to get her to open up, and think of herself for once...along with just a little bit of reluctance.

[atem]

Originally Posted by KareyR2

Perhaps Jillian has had the type of life experience that Jason has been talking about in interviews that he needed his F1 to have experienced. It certainly seems like thus far, what sounds like Jillian perhaps endured in her childhood, supersedes Mel's 7 year relationship, and I don't think Molly has spoken of any type of life experience like this. I don't know...perhaps Mel and Molly have experienced more than we are hearing about which would equate to what Jay said he needed in his F1 from his interviews posting taping. Just tossing that out there, as Jillian once again seems to have everything that Jay has stated repeatedly he needed, (and these are not verbatim )....someone able to light up a room, someone that everyone gravitates towards, someone adventuresome and fun, someone with a love for children (her stated desire to meet Ty would equate to this), someone who has a spark of life/light, someone who knows who they are and what they want, someone who has some sort of life experience.......Jilly fits the bill on them all. Too bad she is gone at F3....Jay missed out on a true gem, and Jillian remains my favourite Bachelorette ever, in any season. Thanks
Karey

Yeah, but that's what I feel for during the Bachelorette. Everything DeAnna stated she wanted made it seem like Jason was F1, but he wasn't.

[cantstopwatchin]

Originally Posted by Capegal

She does keep a certain distance from Jason - not necessarily an ice queen type of thing- but she is not yet willing to let the wall down between herself and him. The same type of BL with Molly as well - there is distance between them - even when they are close together - there is usually a barrier - be it physical or non-physical.

Yes, but Tessa was the exact same way. It was during her HTD where they had that "amazing" talk in the hotel and she really started letting her walls come down. Remember how we all analyzed that convo to death and caught the splicing and dicing. Ahh, good times. I'm curious to see Jill & Jason's talk this upcoming show to see how it compares when she opens herself up.

ETA: Angelic_one-- you and I are on the same wavelength. She definitely reminds me of the Tessa edit!

[theRealist]

I like Jullian best of all, but at the same time I see her with someone who is more intellectual and flexible. I think she may get bored with Jason not being a very deep person and all the restrictions that comes with fatherhood.

[Carefree]

There was a really good article about Jillian in an Alberta paper - it is on the media section I believe. She is a classy lady and the tone of the article led you to surmise that she was not F1. She said that Jason never led her on.

It is a shame that the show will not let them discuss something as serious as a family mental health issues privately. It is a big deal not only to her but to her family. I hoped she asked her mother's permission first, before sharing her family's pain with the world.

[dodie430]

Originally Posted by Capegal

She does keep a certain distance from Jason - not necessarily an ice queen type of thing- but she is not yet willing to let the wall down between herself and him.

I say good on her! Not good in the context of this program, but certainly good for emotionally healthy relationships. I wonder sometimes if these couple who come out at the end, after having experienced sustained fireworks/butterflies/love queasies... take your pick.... I wonder if they don't just look at each other a couple of weeks on and ask themselves what the heck they were thinking?

[coastalbc]

Originally Posted by monkeydoo

i disagree - it is only normal for her to start breaking down a bit at this stage in the game... heck girls were tearing up after their first date ! showing a bit of tears at this point is perfectly normal - not a sign of "TRAUMA" ... so strange that you would put it in perspective that way

I agree completely........ to consider that it might of been a trauma kind of thing, I think might be over stating the situation.

[coastalbc]

Originally Posted by atem

I feel the same way. Jillian has a great relationship with her parents and family. The family receives Jason with open arms and her dad is really happy about the experience.

That's great....... I am looking forward to her HTD.

[coastalbc]

Originally Posted by nennie

Angelic I also believe the reason she takes care of everyone in the house is because of her mothers illness and the fact that is what she has always done....having a sick parent makes you do things different. It for the most part will make you more nurturing and that is what I see in her. I would also say it has made her see people and situations in a different light.

I fully agree with you nennie. I see the nurturing side of Jill as well. I think that is a very enduring quality in a person and especially in a future mother.