Shayne **Spoilers**

[Arielflies]

Originally Posted by RomanticHaze

I don't see it. Which number is it?

#457. I have my post count set at 100 per page. It makes for fewer pages, but I can see where my up page might be your previous page.

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[Capegal]

Actually there is another SC someplace with her sitting outside - in the same outfit/scarf/glasses - looks to be the same occassion - she is by herself - that is the one I thought was being referred to

[catn3d]

Originally Posted by longhornalum

Thanks for the caption. I am not writing Shayne off at all. As strange as it may sound, there was something "healthy" in the way that Matt and Shayne "had it out" in the casino. It sounded like a very real dispute between 2 people who care enough not to just blow each other off.

I never posted this, but that's exactly what I thought too.

[TRICIA N.]

Looking forward to Episode 3 on the winery date and the apparent passion shown with Matt and Shayne plus their presumably long drive back to L.A., what chance do/did the other girls have?

[JoLena]

Originally Posted by TRICIA N.

Looking forward to Episode 3 on the winery date and the apparent passion shown with Matt and Shayne plus their presumably long drive back to L.A., what chance do/did the other girls have?

I think the other girls chances might be a little better. Due to the edit Shayne has gotten thus far, I don't see how she could be F1. I think we need to wait until he has his date with Amanda , before we put Shyne on top. JMO

[TNmomof4]

Originally Posted by bachlorfan

I think the other girls chances might be a little better. Due to the edit Shayne has gotten thus far, I don't see how she could be F1. I think we need to wait until he has his date with Amanda , before we put Shyne on top. JMO

Also, typically the one the bachelor the most passion/chemistry with early on (as shown on TV) is not the one he winds up with (Bevin, Kirsten, Moana...).

[Bjaminsmom]

Originally Posted by longhornalum

Thanks for the caption. I am not writing Shayne off at all. As strange as it may sound, there was something "healthy" in the way that Matt and Shayne "had it out" in the casino. It sounded like a very real dispute between 2 people who care enough not to just blow each other off.

ETA He sounded like Mr. Knightly scolding Emma, and we all know how that ended up.

I don't think it's healthy at all. In fact it is down right bizzare she would throw a tantrum like that in only the first group date. The only time she saw him was at the cocktail party of 25 to 15.

[angelic_one2002]

I think it's bizarre, too. To get that worked up after after knowing him only that long and that little?

[longhornalum]

Originally Posted by Bjaminsmom

I don't think it's healthy at all. In fact it is down right bizzare she would throw a tantrum like that in only the first group date. The only time she saw him was at the cocktail party of 25 to 15.

I actually wasn't referring to Shayne's initial behavior, but the way they air their differences. I appreciate it when people say what they think to one another, not what they think the other person wants to hear. It was just a personal reflection of being raised in straight talking Iowa (often taken as rude and blunt in the South), then experiencing culture shock in the Lone Star state where some people (and I am not going to generalize) value courtesy more.

[Bjaminsmom]

Originally Posted by longhornalum

I actually wasn't referring to Shayne's initial behavior, but the way they air their differences. I appreciate it when people say what they think to one another, not what they think the other person wants to hear. It was just a personal reflection of being raised in straight talking Iowa (often taken as rude and blunt in the South), then experiencing culture shock in the Lone Star state where some people (and I am not going to generalize) value courtesy more.

Airing your differences is one thing, when you know someone. How the heck could she even say she KNEW him. To take it to the level she did, in the context she did, and given the short time she did was bizarre. She wasn't generalizing like people would upon first meeting by saying I don't like this just so you know. She stated "do you think I'm waiting in the wings?". She put him on the spot like a jealous girlfriend who was upset that her boyfriend had a roving eye. Straight talking or being courteous or rude or blunt because that is your style would have been excusable if she was talking in generalization. She was not. She made it personal and about her and her wants. He may not like that fact he is on a date with seven women either but it is what the process is. He is trying to make the best of it and to have someone throw a tantrum like a five year old is a little much.