Body Language & Non Verbal Communication - *Spoilers* - Page 27

Arielflies · 11-10-2007, 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by lyb5007

I'm wondering about the way Brad gave DeAnna the invite to the FD suite. Put on table, pushed forward with both hands. Looked very different from the way he handed it to Bettina, though I think the words said were similar.

BL experts, what do you think? (Sorry if this has already been discussed. My brain seems to only hold a thought for a minute, before it slips away into the fog.)

To me it seemed like since she laid her cards on the table, I'm placing mine on the table. Will she pick it up?

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lyb5007 · 11-10-2007, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Arielflies

To me it seemed like since she laid her cards on the table, I'm placing mine on the table. Will she pick it up?

Nice, Ariel! :thumb up. I hadn't thought of that. So, in a sense, more mirroring. Hmmmm.

kraziladi · 11-10-2007, 01:43 PM

I think this speaks volumes. Coupled with the non response from Brad when Deanna formally announced that she was 'falling in love'.

It clearly shows Brad leaning into Jenni and not much at all with Deanna. Deanna did the leaning here.

kraziladi · 11-10-2007, 01:44 PM

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Estella · 11-10-2007, 01:46 PM

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I think this speaks volumes. Coupled with the non response from Brad when Deanna formally announced that she was 'falling in love'.

It clearly shows Brad leaning into Jenni and not much at all with Deanna. Deanna did the leaning here.

http://i30.photobucket.com/albums/c301/kraziladi/BACHELOR%2011/BRADLEANSINTOJENNIANDDEANNALEA NSINT.jpg?t=1194716275

He didn't lean into DeAnna, put he took her hand and pulled her into him as if to say "Now please come closer to me!"

kraziladi · 11-10-2007, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Estella

He didn't lean into DeAnna, put he took her hand and pulled her into him as if to say "Now please come closer to me!"

Why in the world would he not lean into her after she professes her love to him? Especially after 5 seconds of nothing! If you go back and watch, it clearly shows Brad s arm go straight down and Deanna leans into him.

In the cap you can clearly see the difference in where Brad was before and during both kisses.

This to me is Body Language at it's best. Very telling.

Estella · 11-10-2007, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by kraziladi

Why in the world would he not lean into her after she professes her love to him? Especially after 5 seconds of nothing! If you go back and watch, it clearly shows Brad s arm go straight down and Deanna leans into him.

In the cap you can clearly see the difference in where Brad was before and during both kisses.

This to me is Body Language at it's best. Very telling.

Because he tries hard to keep himself from answering "I'm falling in love with you, too." At least that's what all DeAnna fans see, and I respect that Jenni fans don't see it. You see things that I don't see, that's fine...
If you watch closely, you see that Brad bits his lip, looks down (as he has done in several interviews when DeAnna was mentioned because that was the only way he could hide his -probably delighted- reaction), and then a huge smile appears on his face, he looks back up at DeAnna and pulls her into him. She let's out a little moan when "giving in" to his pull and then they kiss. After the first kiss, DeAnna leans back a little and Brad quickly grabs her face with both hands so she can't pull away and then kisses her again, veeeery slowly!!! Now don't tell me DeAnna is initiating all of this

With DeAnna, Brad is the one touching her, holding her face and trying to have her close to him. With Jenni, it's her who does all the touching, caresses his face and leans into him (especially on the bed). That is what we (on the DB) see, and I think that's also what our "expert" Lynn7 said... Brad is totally into DeAnna, he doesn't need words to show that!!!

lyb5007 · 11-10-2007, 02:27 PM

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I think this speaks volumes. Coupled with the non response from Brad when Deanna formally announced that she was 'falling in love'.

It clearly shows Brad leaning into Jenni and not much at all with Deanna. Deanna did the leaning here.

http://i30.photobucket.com/albums/c301/kraziladi/BACHELOR%2011/BRADLEANSINTOJENNIANDDEANNALEA NSINT.jpg?t=1194716275

WOW! This layout surely does give a different impression, than what I got from watching the episode. Thank you for your time and work in putting it together!

Secret · 11-10-2007, 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by kraziladi

Why in the world would he not lean into her after she professes her love to him? Especially after 5 seconds of nothing! If you go back and watch, it clearly shows Brad s arm go straight down and Deanna leans into him.

In the cap you can clearly see the difference in where Brad was before and during both kisses.

This to me is Body Language at it's best. Very telling.

I understand what you're saying. But, if I'm either one of those girls, I'd take the kiss Deanna had over dinner 100 times over the kiss Brad gave Jenni as he was 'leaning' into her in that shot.

soccermama · 11-10-2007, 02:40 PM

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Originally Posted by lyb5007

WOW! This layout surely does give a different impression, than what I got from watching the episode. Thank you for your time and work in putting it together!

In the pictures to me it looks like both DeAnna and Jenni are both really leaning into Brad and Brad looks to be leaning the same into both of them. I really don't see anything profound here.

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kraziladi HIDDEN IN PLAIN SIGHT Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: OVER THE RAINBOW Posts: 1,412	Re: Body Language & Non Verbal Communication - Spoilers I think this speaks volumes. Coupled with the non response from Brad when Deanna formally announced that she was 'falling in love'. It clearly shows Brad leaning into Jenni and not much at all with Deanna. Deanna did the leaning here. __________________ When you put your whole body into the dance, your spirit will follow.

11-10-2007, 01:44 PM	#264
kraziladi HIDDEN IN PLAIN SIGHT Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: OVER THE RAINBOW Posts: 1,412	Re: Body Language & Non Verbal Communication - Spoilers ^^^^^Why doesn't my picture show up?^^^^^ __________________ When you put your whole body into the dance, your spirit will follow.