Okay, I just caught my nine year old watching the Bachelor on my DVR in my room. My DH was reading (or so he says) while she was watching. I think kids are wonderful judges of character and it is interesting to hear their perspective on people. Although not a body language expert she has said that B&B have more "in the moment" times than anyone else. So I rewatched and had her point them out to me and what she meant. (I know totally crazy asking a nine year old to analyize the Bachelor, okay I need help, is there a doctor aboard this yacht?). Anyway, her observation of the "in the moments" came whenever Brad holds Bettina's hands, whether giving her the rose at epi 3 and she walks away he doesn't immediately let go of her hands or in the improv when she accepts the rose and he holds her hands as long as he can while she walks away or epi 1 when he hugs her after their 1-on-1 his hands drop to hold her hands. They touch hands alot. And to my DD, they are having "in the moments"
Definition of "in the moment" according to my DD - when you are walking down the hallway at school and the guy you love walks towards you and as you pass time slows down and you look at each other deeply in the eyes then you pass each other and your "in the moment" is gone. LOL