In the absence of any more hard proof we're being forced to fill in the blanks. . My question: Andy has repeatedly said that he needs the woman to CHALLENGE him and that he'd cut off other relationships because she no longer CHALLENGED him. What does he mean by that?? Is Danielle too sweet or would she be able to challenge him? I don't get the "challenge" thing. What are your ideas? What traits has Andy repeatedly said that he wanted: VERY smart, very athletic, family is most important, and MUST challenge him, hmmm. Oh, and of course very attractive.