NYC is the land of millions of other opportunities . Sadie may never have even said more than hi to Lorenzo in any other setting than the Bachelor. She'll have many more dating prospects when she moves to the city. New friends, new dates, new place to live. She's got no reason to settle for a man 11 years older than her who doesn't totally get her personal choices and doesn't share her faith - and felt that there was no notable chemistry between them. I think Sadie's too good a person for Lorenzo - she deserves more and better in my opinion. She absolutely deserves her "I deserve" letter - and nothing less. Lorenzo isn't that man.
She said she wants to remain single as well, so it sounds like she wants to go out on dates, but doesn't want to be dating any one person. Good for her - you're only young once . I wish her well on all of her future endeavors.
Can't we just let Sadie live her fairy tale, instead of wishing for her to live one based on the show and perceptions from the show?