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KashatheDiva · 12-20-2006, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by itsyourmom

True. I keep meaning to ask: What does your signature line about the rose and Erica mean?

I think if I had fallen for The Bachelor and he said, "Please move to NYC. I know it's a risk, but I really think we can make this work, and we need to see how we do together on a daily basis," I would do it. The fact that this hasn't happened makes me think that L hasn't asked or she hasn't fallen for him. So, at the end of the school year, she is going to have to ask herself if she still has strong enough feelings to risk that move. Of course, you can have strong feelings long distance, as you and I both know from personal experience. But it does take a lot of work and you need time together. If they don't spend more time together, the obvious question is going to be, do I invest myself in a relationship with someone local with whom I also have chemistry or is this still worth uprooting my whole life? I think L was always looking for someone who would move, since he asked the question and also seemed turned off by Lisa already owning a house (if not for other reasons, lol). It will be interesting to see how it all turns out.

At The Women Tell All, Agnese said this in reply to something regarding her feelings about the Erica double date situation and her feelings about Erica. I thought it was pretty on target!

As a young woman in the position of dating him, as Jen is, I don't think I would have jumped at saying I would move across country(leaving job and family) unless the relationship was so strong at that point, and even then, I think I would stipulate a trial period of maybe just a couple months long distance dating just to test that what we had in Rome was as real in the USA.
As a mom of daughters that age, I would be urging them on the side of caution. No doubt.
However, I do strongly feel as you stated, Lor was looking for someone to move--and a reluctance to do so, unless this was agreed upon before hand, might sit poorly with him. This was a factor of letting Lisa go. IF I were Lor, and it was a non-negotiable factor and someone renegged on it, that would not sit well with me at all.

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HotMomma · 12-20-2006, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by bugsme3

Go to the AOL BACHELOR board and there is a report there by someone who has a kid in her class that was put there this morning. Interesting indeed. May be gossip or not but Jen is still wearing her ring and have that big smile she always has on. Seems she will be leaving friday for NJ and coming back Saturday night with Lorenzo for Christmas Floridan style.

Hey bugs how do you get on the aol bachelor board?

itsyourmom · 12-20-2006, 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by bugsme3

May be gossip or not but Jen is still wearing her ring and have that big smile she always has on. Seems she will be leaving friday for NJ and coming back Saturday night with Lorenzo for Christmas Floridan style.

Good gossip! It sounds a little unusual to go to NY for one day only to turn around and come back. (Why wouldn't he just come down alone?) But it would be fun to know if this is true. Anyone else heard or read anything?

bugsme3 · 12-21-2006, 09:29 AM

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Originally Posted by itsyourmom

Good gossip! It sounds a little unusual to go to NY for one day only to turn around and come back. (Why wouldn't he just come down alone?) But it would be fun to know if this is true. Anyone else heard or read anything?

SORRY SORRY SORRY, I posted the wrong day it was to be today thursday she goes down and comes back Saturday night with him. I am a member on another board that is how I got the info about this, but was told 2 weeks ago by a very dear and reliable friend of mine. This was 3rd time confirmation from 3 different source

itsyourmom · 12-21-2006, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by bugsme3

SORRY SORRY SORRY, I posted the wrong day it was to be today thursday she goes down and comes back Saturday night with him. I am a member on another board that is how I got the info about this, but was told 2 weeks ago by a very dear and reliable friend of mine. This was 3rd time confirmation from 3 different source

No need to apologize.

Sometimes time escapes me too. That's interesting. So you have a friend who knows Jennifer?

Kasha, I am not a dog lover, but the pup on your avatar is so cute, I can't stand it, lol.

I have not heard anything new. If I were Jennifer, I'd be mad that L's brother was publicly remarking upon him being seen with someone else.

Peaches'n cream · 12-21-2006, 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by KashatheDiva

However, I do strongly feel as you stated, Lor was looking for someone to move--and a reluctance to do so, unless this was agreed upon before hand, might sit poorly with him. This was a factor of letting Lisa go. IF I were Lor, and it was a non-negotiable factor and someone renegged on it, that would not sit well with me at all.

I recall that Lorenzo also said that he was glad that Jen would be willing to move to New York. He indicated that he didn't want someone to "sacrifice" her life for him because that's when it gets complicated and that for it to work all the pieces need to fit together.

If Lorenzo and Jen are working on their relationship, I would presume that one of the pieces would be moving to New York (eventually). I don't think either of them would think it responsible or professional for Jen to up and leave her job. Jen also did mention when she said that she would leave her job that she only has her students for a year....That to me sounded as if she would entertain moving at the end of the school year... Just a thought.

ScoutMom · 12-21-2006, 12:30 PM

I remember Jen saying that also. Sounds to me like she intends to finish out the school year and then possibly move. Teachers are always in demand no matter where you live, so as long as she gets a decent reference from her current school, she should make out fine.

KashatheDiva · 12-21-2006, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by itsyourmom

Kasha, I am not a dog lover, but the pup on your avatar is so cute, I can't stand it, lol.

Thanks that is my dog, Kasha, when she was a puppy.

She is pure Diva.

luvlady345 · 12-21-2006, 06:53 PM

The rumor mill is going crazy.......Just read on another board that a NYC radio station said that Lo flew Sadie in for the holidays.........Wow how much crazier can they get, Lo is sure to be a busy man with Jen flying into NJ also oh well..........

bugsme3 · 12-21-2006, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by luvlady345

The rumor mill is going crazy.......Just read on another board that a NYC radio station said that Lo flew Sadie in for the holidays.........Wow how much crazier can they get, Lo is sure to be a busy man with Jen flying into NJ also oh well..........

Which board is this just curious?

12-21-2006, 12:30 PM	#2467
ScoutMom FORT Fogey Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: New Jersey Posts: 2,049	I remember Jen saying that also. Sounds to me like she intends to finish out the school year and then possibly move. Teachers are always in demand no matter where you live, so as long as she gets a decent reference from her current school, she should make out fine.

12-21-2006, 06:53 PM	#2469
luvlady345 FORT Fanatic Join Date: May 2004 Location: USA Posts: 799	The rumor mill is going crazy.......Just read on another board that a NYC radio station said that Lo flew Sadie in for the holidays.........Wow how much crazier can they get, Lo is sure to be a busy man with Jen flying into NJ also oh well..........